I started Part Time last week (one day last week, two days this week and next, three days after that). I am starting full time in January.
It is HORRIBLE. Honestly, I am really really struggling with leaving her. If there was any possible way for us to afford for me to SAH, I would... but there isn't
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It's times like this that I am so incredibly thankful for Canada's maternity benefits & job security. Not only is my job secure for a year, I'm able to receive benefits for 50 weeks (granted, the benefits are minimal compared to my regular salary). I will be returning to work full-time October 1, 2012.
To all the moms struggling - I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with this with your LO's so tiny. Hang in there! HUGS!!
"God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your strength, but with the testing he will also provide the way out so that you may be able to endure it" 1 Corinthians 10:13
I won't be back full-time in the office until March 1. But I'm starting to work from home part-time next week, just to start exercising my brain and making some money. The majority of my leave is unpaid.
January 2nd. I thought I would be looking forward to getting back, but I'm really torn. I like my job and I like my coworkers. I've been with the company for 12 years, so I have a lot of flexibility at this point, which is great, but I think it will be really hard to be away from her all day. I wish I could go part time (ideal!). While I think I could make it work with my company I don't think I could make it work with my bank account. Wish I'd saved more before I went out.
January 3rd. I'm not wanting to go back, but there's no way we can swing it financially. I lay awake dreaming of ways to stay home. It is breaking my heart. I know she will be in good hands because she is staying with my SIL, but I want her in MY hands.
January 9th. I have some mixed feelings about it. I love my job and (most of) my coworkers, but I also would love to spend more time with my LO. I know the first day back is going to be rough.
I go back dec 28th. So not looking forward to it. It's going to be hard getting out the door with 2 kids in the morning and it's going to be really hard to give both of them enough attention in only a few hours in the evening.
I'm already back to work. I've been doing part time hours the past few weeks. I'm doing ok so far. Shes with family three days a week and me the other two, since I work from home. I'm sure this plan will change when she gets more active.
I would have loved more time off to spend with her, but used up my paid leave and needed to get back. It has actually been good for my mental health to have another outlet.
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I'm going back January 24th. I really wish I could work part time, but I am a teacher and there are no job sharing options at my work. I am mostly worried about how I am going to keep my cool dealing with a bunch of crazy teenagers when I've had a bad night with LO!
I go back on January 9th. E starts daycare on January 3rd so we'll see how that goes.
There is a part of me that has been ready to head back to work for the past 2 weeks. If it wasn't for the Holidays, I would have returned at least part time.
This was supposed to be my first day back too but found out I have a training dec 28th and 29th.that I need to start with my "class"so I guess I'm going back a week early, but only a 2 day week and that means I have another week leave I can use between then and next october!
I'm fortunate in that I have paid leave until March 19th. My company has a great maternity leave policy and then I used up the majority of my vacation time as well (we get a lot of that too). While I think by then I'll be looking forward to the intellectual stimulation at work, each day as my LO responds more and more to me it makes it hard to see him less.
We are checking out day care centers next week. I hope I like one or else I'm gonig to end up with mommy guilt.
January 9. Really not looking forward to it for a number of reasons. I'm having major anxiety about leaving DD, even though she will be in great hands, I still stress.
I'm a special ed teacher for kids with moderate to severe handicaps who don't adjust well to change. I've never met half of my class and they have had a sub since the beginning of the school year in August. There is going to be a huge adjustment period and I'm not really looking forward to it I'm going to have to spend a lot more time at school than normal to get things back to the way I want them and the thought of being away from the kids for that long kills me.
January 2nd... but I'm a daycare teacher so I get to take DS to work with me! I won't be able to spend as much time with him, but I still get to see him whenever I want since he's only a room away!
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Re: Working moms -- when do you go back to work?
I started Part Time last week (one day last week, two days this week and next, three days after that). I am starting full time in January.
It is HORRIBLE. Honestly, I am really really struggling with leaving her. If there was any possible way for us to afford for me to SAH, I would... but there isn't
Married 08/18/07
BFP 02/15/11 EDD 10/27/11 Born at 35w3d on 09/25/11
BFP 10/13/12 EDD 06/25/13 Born at 37w0d on 06/04/13
BFP 12/11/15 EDD 08/23/16 Early miscarriage
BFP 02/02/16 EDD 10/16/16

To all the moms struggling - I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with this with your LO's so tiny. Hang in there! HUGS!!
"God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your strength, but with the testing he will also provide the way out so that you may be able to endure it" 1 Corinthians 10:13Snuggle.
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BFP #2 10/23/13 EDD 7/1/14, MC 11/18/13
BFP#3 4/14/14 EDD 12/26/14
October 2012 (I'm in Canada too). If I return.
Jan 3. DD will be going to daycare.
I cry just thinking about it. I have no idea how I'm going to handle being away from her.
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I go back on January 9th. E starts daycare on January 3rd so we'll see how that goes.
There is a part of me that has been ready to head back to work for the past 2 weeks. If it wasn't for the Holidays, I would have returned at least part time.
I'm fortunate in that I have paid leave until March 19th. My company has a great maternity leave policy and then I used up the majority of my vacation time as well (we get a lot of that too). While I think by then I'll be looking forward to the intellectual stimulation at work, each day as my LO responds more and more to me it makes it hard to see him less.
We are checking out day care centers next week. I hope I like one or else I'm gonig to end up with mommy guilt.
January 9. Really not looking forward to it for a number of reasons. I'm having major anxiety about leaving DD, even though she will be in great hands, I still stress.
I'm a special ed teacher for kids with moderate to severe handicaps who don't adjust well to change. I've never met half of my class and they have had a sub since the beginning of the school year in August. There is going to be a huge adjustment period and I'm not really looking forward to it
I'm going to have to spend a lot more time at school than normal to get things back to the way I want them and the thought of being away from the kids for that long kills me.
Mommy's Little Man
Making hearts melt since 10/22/2011
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