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I'm pretty sure I'm a virgin again

meganjane86meganjane86 member
in August 2011 Moms

Like, seriously. It's been 7 months.

7 MONTHS!!!

I'm losing my mind!!! Sex was really painful later in the pregnancy and it kinda creeped my husband out that he could feel LO moving around so much- understandable. I had a really large tear and healed well, then had a set back, now I'm feeling good again but my DH is terrified of getting pregnant. I've just started up the pill again and he wants to wait until I'm on it for a whole month until we have sex even though I'm EBF. I don't think I can wait that long. 

I think I'm jumping him tonight. 

Please tell me I'm not the only one- even if you have to lie! lol

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  • tandb2010tandb2010 member

    I was pretty sore and DH was scared he was going to hurt me so we waited a LONG time too.  But it's all good now :) GL to you jumping your DH;)

    Why not just ease your DH's mind and whip out the condoms.

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  • meganjane86meganjane86 member
    imagetandb2010:

    I was pretty sore and DH was scared he was going to hurt me so we waited a LONG time too.  But it's all good now :) GL to you jumping your DH;)

    Why not just ease your DH's mind and whip out the condoms.

    Because my vagina is apparently a delicate flower that nothing shall touch, lest we want a tantrum. Meaning I seriously can't have anything (even certain brands of pads) touch any part of my nether regions without getting a bartholyn cyst. The day I found lube that I could use I almost cried. lol.

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  • mdotm0904mdotm0904 member
    ummm i haven't had sex since Christmas Eve....sooooo yeah, pretty sure i'm more pure than the Virgin Mary at this point =/
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  • meganjane86meganjane86 member

    imagemdotm0904:
    ummm i haven't had sex since Christmas Eve....sooooo yeah, pretty sure i'm more pure than the Virgin Mary at this point =/

    We're virgin besties!

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    imagemeganjane86:

    imagemdotm0904:
    ummm i haven't had sex since Christmas Eve....sooooo yeah, pretty sure i'm more pure than the Virgin Mary at this point =/

    We're virgin besties!

    maybe we can get on an episode of the Virgin Diaries LOL

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  • LadyLissameLadyLissame member

    To be honest, not looking forward to celibacy with this divorce. (It is going to be awhile before I'm ready to date)

    Can I join? 

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  • shockleyhshockleyh
    Since February here. Haven't consummated our marriage even.. ugh :( Virgin Besties for the WIN!!
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  • megd06megd06 member
    not a virgin to that extent--but since July, we've only had sex about 4x. maybe only 3. Definitely not more than 4 though.
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  • kjuryflkjuryfl member

    We are at a whooping grand total of 3x...

     

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  • legaleagleslegaleagles member
    Nothing since July when I was trying to induce labor....it didn't work.  I had a third degree tear and still have pain....and I'm terrified of getting of, even though I have if and have the iud. I'm paranoid.
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  • Emmy164Emmy164

    Speaking of the Virgin Diaries.....man this so awkward...

     

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  • meganjane86meganjane86 member

    Thank god we're not the only ones...  I was starting to think there was something wrong with us! Although I'm sorry there are others experiencing the same drought. By the way... jumping him didn't work. lol. He was all, "WHAT ARE YOU, NUTS?! YOU'LL BE PREGNANT AGAIN JUST FROM US THINKING ABOUT IT!"

    So, we're waiting until the end of the month when I'm done with my first pill pack. Geeeeesh.

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  • lj smithlj smith member
    We've only done it once since June! I kept hoping DH would initiate something and he never did. Sometimes a postpartum mama just wants to feel attractive you know? After our first DH was all "Is six weeks up yet?" And this time not so much.
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  • jennypenny1014jennypenny1014 member

    Wow.  I dont know what I'd do if I had to go 7 months without sex...I'm so sorry! I think your DH needs another "birds and the bees" talk so he knows that you're fully protected after ONE WEEK on your pill. And that TOTALLY sucks that you cant use condoms!! (I hate them, but I cant use hormonal BC (and DH is allergic to spermicide), so alas I'm stuck)

    We've been back on the horse since the second we were cleared by my OB...multiple times. We're even 2 deep into our 2nd box of condoms. :::begins tip-toeing quietly out of post...looks both ways...then takes off at a full sprint:::

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