I'm not giving up hope, but I'm not assuming I'll get pregnant by March (when my OB says that we should start looking into further testing, options, and when I'd like to consult an RE). I'm not really convinced that Clomid alone will help us... based purely on my own gut feelings I think that an IUI would be a lot more effective. But I've only barely begun to research that.
Can those of you who have done
or considered IUIs tell me what your experience was? Why did you
decide for/against that route? Did you conceive? How many tries? Medicated
or unmedicated? Anything else I need to consider?
Re: Wondering about IUIs
IUIs that aren't medicated are rather pointless, IMO. When you start wil an re, you'll be tested up the wazoo. This will pinpoint whether it's you, your dh, it both, or unexplained. If there's severe MFI, your re may suggest skipping the iui and going straight to ivf.
Your course of treatment wont necessarily be the same as someone who has ouiui covered. I have Aetna too.. Do they cover your meds? What about ultrasounds? That's a large chunk of the money right there. The actual iui which includes sperm washing and insemination runs just shy if $1k. However, once you add in all the drugs and blood work and ultrasounds, it pushes the cost to upward of $5k. If your doing clomid or femera, it's pretty cheap and they'll usually only do one or two ultrasounds. Usually, the first iui or two are done with these drugs and a trigger shot. Once you get into iui #3, or if you don't have any response to the oral drugs, then they bring out injectable drugs. This is the expensive sh!!t.
BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
We did 4 IUIs with Clomid. We conceived on the 3rd IUI, but it was a chemical pregnacy. We only did the 4th one because our 3rd was successful. Our RE basically told us that he really only recommends 3 before moving on, and we only did them because insurance covered them (we're dealing with MFI so IVF with ICSI is our best shot). We were supposed to pay 50% of cost, but we have yet to receive a bill so insurance likely ended up covering them. If I had to estimate based on the price sheet the RE gave me, I would say each IUI was close to $600. If you use injectable meds, the cost is significantly more.
BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
Too beautiful for this earth
BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
Our next step, whenever we choose to accept it, is an IUI which is not covered.
We will be doing femara, trigger, and IUI. The femara and trigger shot will be about $300, the u/s are about $200 each, and the IUI itself is about $700. And for us it's totally OOP. We are trying to save up $1,500 for one IUI.
Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
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BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010
BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)
3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!
Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500
First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat
LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!
TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015
Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015
Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270
First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.
JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.
TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]
**ticker warning**
The RE tested us for almost everything, and it took about 6 months before they'd even start any kind of treatment. We did 3 IUIs in 2009 since those were covered by insurance. I was on clomid all three times and did not conceive. The RE switched me to Gonal-f and let us do timed intercourse. At that point, I wasn't convinced that an IUI would work for us (we are/were unexplained IF).
We were very lucky that the IUIs were covered by insurance and we had to pay a co-pay for each visit. The medications were covered under a prescription insurance I had and all I had to pay was a large co-pay.
With our new insurance, they only cover 80% and I'm not even sure about the prescription coverage.
Good luck! I hope the IUIs are successful for you!
2 years of TTC, Seeing RE Feb 09, 2 medicated TI cycles - BFNs, 3 medicated IUIs - BFNs, back to medicated TI cycles until IVF approval, IVF approved in March 2010. BFP on last medicated TI cycle.