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JenJarJenJar
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I saw your comment on MrsHark's post and it got me wondering.  I'd been thinking about your post a while back about your DH's old coworker (or something along those lines) who had a baby and you hadn't heard any news.  Is that the stillborn you're referring to?  Maybe I missed the update.  How heartbreaking for all the families involved in these losses. :(
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  • TelycoTelyco
    No, this was another friend. And she sees my OB- which DH recommended to her actually. So on top of being so upset for her we were SO worried that my OB missed something or made a mistake..but that wasn't the case. I just cant believe that can still happen! The one I posted about ended up having complications after birth and was in the NICU for a couple of weeks. They are home and all seems fine now, thank God...but are pretty mentally traumatized. I can't even imagine! And actually all of this has become a big piece of the when/if we should TTC for #3 question. I don't know if I could go through this stuff.
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  • JenJarJenJar

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    No, this was another friend. And she sees my OB- which DH recommended to her actually. So on top of being so upset for her we were SO worried that my OB missed something or made a mistake..but that wasn't the case. I just cant believe that can still happen! The one I posted about ended up having complications after birth and was in the NICU for a couple of weeks. They are home and all seems fine now, thank God...but are pretty mentally traumatized. I can't even imagine! And actually all of this has become a big piece of the when/if we should TTC for #3 question. I don't know if I could go through this stuff.

    I totally understand!  I was always the ones that said I wanted 3 or 4, and DH wants to be finished.  I'm sure finances are going to keep us from having more, but when I start to feel down about being 'done' I have to remind myself that I'm so lucky for what I have and there's no guarantee that another pregnancy/delivery would go as great as the first two.  Lots of positive thoughts to your friends.

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