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Ultrasound today...not good.

I was supposed to be 9 weeks and only getting bloodwork done, but because I had bright red blood on Friday they moved up the ultrasound to today.  There was a baby, but no heartbeat and both baby and uterus were only 6 wks 2 days along.  I go back in next week to confirm that I miscarried.  I'm a mess.  I really didn't think I would be this way cause my husband and I were happy with our DD.  This baby was a surprise so it wasn't like were trying for months and months to be disappointed.  At this point I don't even know how I feel.
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Re: Ultrasound today...not good.

  • I'm so sorry that you're going through this. :(
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  • :(  I'm so sorry.  No matter the circumstances, this was not your choice.  It's alright to feel how you feel.  I'm so sorry this happened, and I hope you can find some peace soon.

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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. Right Hug  *hugs*
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  • I'm so sorry.... ((hugs))
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  • I've been in your shoes and know how bad it hurts.  Praying for you.  You are not alone.  May God hold you and your family tight.

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  • I'm so sorry. *hugs* I've been there and know how much it hurts. Is there any way that your dates could be off?
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  • I am so sorry! You're in my thoughts & prayers! ((Hugs))
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  • Thank you ladies. 

    Happyhoopla--the nurses were trying to be supportive.  I guess there is always a chance which is why they are bringing me back in next week to check for any growth.  But they didn't seem very convinced of the possibility.  If it was only 2 weeks difference they might have been more encouraged, but 3 weeks just seems too far off.  I even looked at the calendar for when I got my BFP, and by the 6 week mark I practically would have to have gotten my BFP when I concieved.

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  • I'm so sorry (((hugs)))
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  • So sorry for your loss.



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  • I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  I miscarried a few years back and although different circumstances, it is still a loss that many can't understand.  How you react, is how you react to your loss.  You may cry, you may not, let yourself work through the process of grieving without expectations of how you SHOULD be feeling - focus on how you ARE feeling.  And don't let anyone tell you how you SHOULD be reacting or feeling.

     Take care of yourself, and know that not only are your close friends and family there for you, you also have a network of support here for you too.

     HUGS and best wishes.

  • *big hugs*

    I am so so sorry. T&Ps to you :(

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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this, as well.  I had no problems with my pregnancy with DD, but my second pregnancy I went in at 8 weeks, 2 days and discovered that I had a blighted ovum (empty sac).  I had no bleeding or any indication that anything was wrong, so I was totally blind-sided by it.  The good news is that I'm pregnant again and things are looking good (knock on wood), so if you are having a miscarriage, it doesn't destroy the hope for a future pregnancy.  My T&P are with you.
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  • So sorry you are going through this. 
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this.  Take care of yourself.
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  • Planned or not it's hard to lose a baby, at any phase.  I'm sorry to hear about your loss.  I hope you can find peace in this situation, this must be very difficult to go through.  T & P's to your family.

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