So pissed at H tonight **Vent**
kitcat6351
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1) I just got home today from my annual 3 day Christmas-shopping trip with the women in my family. I was in a city 5 hours away and haven't seen H since early Sunday morning. But where is he? Going to his martial arts classes, a hobby of his and he usually goes 2 or 3 nights a week (they're offered every night at his gym). This is a man that gets his feelings hurt when I'm not home excited to greet him after his drill weekends 45 minutes away (only 1 night away from home). But I come home this afternoon from 3 nights away in another state and he can't come home to see me before 9:30? Hypocritical much? We spend a lot of time apart due to his career, and that's fine and dandy so it's not that I'm just dying to see him right now, but it does p1ss me off that he can't even come home in time to have dinner with me when he would be really hurt if I did the same back to him after one of his trips...
2) The house was a mess when I got home. Kitchen was destroyed with takeout pizza left out on the counter, clothes all over the couches, and the one thing I asked him to do while I was gone (bathe our dogs that stink from running around outside at his parents) has still very obviously not been done.
And most importantly, and the thing that put me over the edge...
3) HE ATE ALL OF MY BLUE BELL ICE CREAM! What I must explain is that you cannot buy Blue Bell around here, it's just not in stores. My best friend brought me this ice cream from out of state (where she attends school) via dry ice as a sort-of pregnancy gift. And now it's gone, and I only got one bowl out of it.
Normally I have nothing but praise for my H. But tonight I may put him for sale on craigslist.
Re: So pissed at H tonight **Vent**
Thank you!!! He thinks I'm being ridiculous because "we don't mark names on food in our house". True, but this was a gift for me, and he doesn't appreciate Blue Bell like I do. A gallon of Edy's would have been all the same to him, which we can get anywhere. Yet he ate all of my Blue Bell while I was away. Jerk. Doesn't he know you don't mess with a pregnant woman's food anyway?? Maybe I'm being silly and hormonal, but I really teared up over this!
It was Dutch Chocolate. Had it been Pistachio, he'd be a dead man walking right now.
And gervaisj -- I live in central North Carolina. It does not exist here. My bff got it from Tennessee.
I swear men don't think. My DH is a sweetheart, but does the exact same thing when I am gone...eats all the good food, stuff I specifically get for myself and leaves crap all over the house...what is with that?!?!
Never had Blue Bell, but sounds delicious and he's lucky he's still alive. Vent away!
I would be PISSED!!! I've got steam coming out of my ears for you!
Sometimes I think mine is just training me for when we have children
Then came a miscarriage March '11
Then came a baby in the baby carriage May 16, 12
Waiting on our second little peanut!