Hello all,
I have only posted on this particular board once or twice but have read many of the posts on various topics here and find them helpful. DH and I are very much into the attachment parenting lifestyle- cloth diapering, baby wearing, co sleeping, breastfeeding on cue etc. and have been since my 7 month old was born. Since day one we have been bed sharing and loving it however, LO wakes at least 5-6 times per night and it is really starting to take a toll on me. I am physically and mentally exhausted. We recently moved LO's crib into our room next to my side of the bed- hoping she might sleep longer stretches in her crib. The first night was good but every night thereafter has been back to the same thing: typically a three hour stretch at the most from bed time at 7pm until about 10pm, then up about every hour to 1.5 hours after that. I've read most of Pantley's book "No Cry Sleep Solution" and found some helpful advice in other regards but am feeling desperate for longer stretches of sleep and I am not having success with that. My concern is that the only solution may be to stop co sleeping. Before I jump to that, I would like to hear responses from others that have been in my situation and what worked for you. I am wondering if I were to move her crib to the other side of my bedroom instead of right next to my side of the bed, if that might help? I hope this all makes sense as I am typing this in a state of borderline delirium :-/
Re: Co Sleeping Mommy Needs HELP!
Check out Solidio's post above for what I did with my LO when he was just over 7 months to get some more sleep.
Also, I wanted to add that the Sleep Lady Shuffle site has a lot of useful info, although I didn't follow her method. I was glad I checked it out.
For us, LO goes down for the night in his crib in his room. Whenever he wakes, I bring him into our bed. It is true that he wakes more often to nurse when he's next to me. I did try the PNP in our room, but then he wasn't with me, and he still woke a bunch, so we went back to his crib in his room.
The other thing to consider is naps. LO wasn't sleeping enough during the day, and I've really had to work on that, but as his naps improved, so did our nights.
BFP#1 "Watermelon" born 3/2011
BFP#2 "Pumpkin" 7/14/12 ~ EDD 3/23/13 ~ Natural M/C 8/3/12 @ 7 weeks
BFP#3 "Pineapple" born 4/2013
BFP#4 "Grapefruit" EDD 3/29/16
THIS! Bedsharing made it so much easier for me! Please see my post on the solidio thread.
Good luck!