Pregnant after a Loss

1st bloodwork results!

Okay, I just got a call from my RE.  My HCG is 49 and progesterone is 26. They are also rx'ing a prog supp  and i go back for another beta/prog draw next tuesday. And told me that I can't have sex until I'm at 8weeks!  Is this normal??  Thanks ladies!

TTC #1 since 5/2010 dx: annovulatory 

RLP: 2/2012: normal HSG 3/2012: normal

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I have two angel babies that I will see again one day

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BFP #4: 5/23/14 EDD: 1/30/15  Emma's gonna be a big sister!

Beta #1 19DPO: 213 Beta #2 21DPO: 674

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Re: 1st bloodwork results!

  • Great first numbers!!! My RE never said anything to me about not having sex, but I kind of put that rule down myself. The progesterone suppositories would make it messy I guess and I was afraid of seeing spotting afterwards. DH and I didn't have sex until almost 19 weeks. Embarrassed
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  • Thx :) she did say that the supp can be quite messy....  I told DH about the no sex thing and he is so elated that he could care less!  Lol. More power to you for holding out 19 weeks!!  You have major will-power..... But secretly, it may be longer for me too because two days after sex last time is when i mc and i am in fear that anything other than walking would not be good... :(  

    Last night we went out to dinner and he let his enthusiasm be known (and celebrated a little TOO much!) he REALLY wants to be a daddy before he is 40 next year and is so cute about it!


    TTC #1 since 5/2010 dx: annovulatory 

    RLP: 2/2012: normal HSG 3/2012: normal

     BFP #1 7/20/11 M/C 7/25/11. BFP #2 11/29/11 M/C 12/21/11

    I have two angel babies that I will see again one day

    BFP #3 10/27/12 EDD: 7/6/13

    Baby Emma arrived at 35 weeks by surprise on June 3rd, 2013!!


                           Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    BFP #4: 5/23/14 EDD: 1/30/15  Emma's gonna be a big sister!

    Beta #1 19DPO: 213 Beta #2 21DPO: 674

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  • imagemikeANDjen448:

    Thx :) she did say that the supp can be quite messy....  I told DH about the no sex thing and he is so elated that he could care less!  Lol. More power to you for holding out 19 weeks!!  You have major will-power..... But secretly, it may be longer for me too because two days after sex last time is when i mc and i am in fear that anything other than walking would not be good... :(  

    Last night we went out to dinner and he let his enthusiasm be known (and celebrated a little TOO much!) he REALLY wants to be a daddy before he is 40 next year and is so cute about it!

    The thought of seeing spotting afterwards terrified me enough to hold out that long and DH didn't seem to mind, so it wasn't too hard lol. And it had been so long, that it hurt like hell when we finally did it...so it may be another 19 weeks before we try again! lol

    Aww your DH is so cute.

    Married 9/19/09
    BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
    BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
    BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
    BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
    BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
    Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section
    BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
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    imagemikeANDjen448:

    Thx :) she did say that the supp can be quite messy....  I told DH about the no sex thing and he is so elated that he could care less!  Lol. More power to you for holding out 19 weeks!!  You have major will-power..... But secretly, it may be longer for me too because two days after sex last time is when i mc and i am in fear that anything other than walking would not be good... :(  

    Last night we went out to dinner and he let his enthusiasm be known (and celebrated a little TOO much!) he REALLY wants to be a daddy before he is 40 next year and is so cute about it!

    The thought of seeing spotting afterwards terrified me enough to hold out that long and DH didn't seem to mind, so it wasn't too hard lol. And it had been so long, that it hurt like hell when we finally did it...so it may be another 19 weeks before we try again! lol

    Aww your DH is so cute.

    I TOTALLY get the painful part!  If we go even several weeks it hurts a bit...  Lol. But you never know... You may be begging for it around your due date! :-P 


    TTC #1 since 5/2010 dx: annovulatory 

    RLP: 2/2012: normal HSG 3/2012: normal

     BFP #1 7/20/11 M/C 7/25/11. BFP #2 11/29/11 M/C 12/21/11

    I have two angel babies that I will see again one day

    BFP #3 10/27/12 EDD: 7/6/13

    Baby Emma arrived at 35 weeks by surprise on June 3rd, 2013!!


                           Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    BFP #4: 5/23/14 EDD: 1/30/15  Emma's gonna be a big sister!

    Beta #1 19DPO: 213 Beta #2 21DPO: 674

                           Pregnancy Ticker
  • imagetheresat858:

    Great numbers! 

    As far as the sex, I don't think that's standard...from what my OB said, sex can't possibly harm a healthy pregnancy.  But it can cause spotting, which can then cause you to panic, so that might be why they are recommending against it. That being said, we have had very little sex this pregnancy.

    I was under this impression too...  Oh well. Small price to pay for getting my Christmas wish :-) 


    TTC #1 since 5/2010 dx: annovulatory 

    RLP: 2/2012: normal HSG 3/2012: normal

     BFP #1 7/20/11 M/C 7/25/11. BFP #2 11/29/11 M/C 12/21/11

    I have two angel babies that I will see again one day

    BFP #3 10/27/12 EDD: 7/6/13

    Baby Emma arrived at 35 weeks by surprise on June 3rd, 2013!!


                           Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    BFP #4: 5/23/14 EDD: 1/30/15  Emma's gonna be a big sister!

    Beta #1 19DPO: 213 Beta #2 21DPO: 674

                           Pregnancy Ticker
  • I'm somewhat surprised they put you on the progesterone suppliment with a number as high as 26, but I'm sure it can't hurt anything either. My OB didn't give me any restrictions with regards to sex, but I was so tired and bloated, I had no desire anyways.
  • I'm sure it's because of the progesterone that they are not wanting you to have sex...but honestly, even though I've given in to DH a couple of times, I just have no desire right now!  I waited a good few weeks anyway too just because I didn't want anything scary to happen.  I'm glad to hear that DH is so excited and won't feel neglected by the whole no sex for a little bit thing.  That helps!  Now sending doubling dust your way! 
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  • Thanks ladies!  I was  bit shocked about the progesterone as well, but I guess it couldn't hurt anything :)

    TTC #1 since 5/2010 dx: annovulatory 

    RLP: 2/2012: normal HSG 3/2012: normal

     BFP #1 7/20/11 M/C 7/25/11. BFP #2 11/29/11 M/C 12/21/11

    I have two angel babies that I will see again one day

    BFP #3 10/27/12 EDD: 7/6/13

    Baby Emma arrived at 35 weeks by surprise on June 3rd, 2013!!


                           Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    BFP #4: 5/23/14 EDD: 1/30/15  Emma's gonna be a big sister!

    Beta #1 19DPO: 213 Beta #2 21DPO: 674

                           Pregnancy Ticker
  • Hmm the no sex thing is interesting. I am also on progesterone and I was wondering what to do about sex. I take mine at night before bed and figured it would be ok to do it before I take my next dose but I don't know I guess it would still be messy..

    Anyways, congrats on the great numbers!!!

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    BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
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  • Congrats on such good first numbers!!
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