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Pregnant after a Loss
myaddiwaddi06
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Probably Leaving, Stuck in limbo
myaddiwaddi06
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So I unfortunately have a bit of back story. I started this pregnancy low on progesterone which was terrifying but I have been on suplements since the begining. I had 2 beta draws that more than doubled and my progesterone went up so I thought things may just be okay. Fast forward to my first u/s on Wed of last week. I thought I should be about 7w1d. I don't know my exact O date but thought I was close based on when DH and I had sex.
I go into the appt feeling like we weren't going to see anything and I was right. I was measuring 5w0d. I started to panic and just couldn't control my tears. I was alone as DH couldn't be there b/c of the holiday. I explained to my dr that I am almost certain I was further along than that. He got my blood work out and said that to him it seemed like I was on track. My first beta was so low he was surprised I got a BFP. He said that he was not in any way comfortable telling me I was going to m/c without more info. He had be run another beta and requested the techs call him immediately on his cell with the info. I was instructed to call him that night for the results. My beta was 4700 ish (I don't remember the exact number) he said that it was doubling every 72 hours and he was okay with that.
He said I could be off on my dates and the u/s machine isn't always perfect. He told me not to worry yet and to enjoy my Holiday and call the office on Monday so we could check the betas again. I stayed home with DD as she was not feeling well yesterday. I went to the restroom early yesterday morning and started spotting. I was sad but not surprised. So far it's pretty much been spotting and clearish discharge. No real clots or anything. I didn't even call the DR. I assumed I would have a natural M/C like last time and he wasn't very simpathetic so I just laid around all day yesterday. So today still just spotting. I am wearing a pad but it's not getting anything on it.
I called my DR and I am waiting for a call back. I don't feel good at all about this and I am just plain over it. I am less than a week away from my 1 year anniversary of my 1st loss. I just want to go home and snuggle DD.
Sorry this was so long. It's been a long few days.
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Re: Probably Leaving, Stuck in limbo
BFP #1 2-1-11 Missed Miscarriage 3-14-11(9 wks)-D&C
BFP #2 9-17-11 EDD 5-29-12
Edward James born 3-14-12 weighing 1lb11oz at 29w1d via c section due to low fluid and growth restriction from crappy placenta.
My BFP Chart
BFP #1 07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
TTA for 7 months
Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
TTC Again May 2014
Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles - All BFN's
SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results
Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
My Blog: The Canadian Housewife PGAL/PAL Welcome My Chart
Ella born 12/21/11
BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
"Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience." Let it Be (blog) ♥ My BFP Charts
This time I'm not leaving without you.
Justin + Laura 10.18.08
TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS!
Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
Another baby on the way! 8.25.14
DD#1 9-4-04 *** DD#2 10-15-07
BFP#3 10-25-10 *EDD 7/1/11 * missed m/c @ 13w3d
BFP#4 7-30-11 *EDD 4/8/12 ~ DD#3 born 4/4/12
DD born 4/3/10 BFP 4/9/11 missed mc @10w4d- forever loved
BFP 8/21/11 EDD 4/29/12
BFP#1 - 9/2/10, EDD 5/14/11, Twins Hannah and Liam lost 11/7/10 @ 13w1d.
BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12
~*~My BFP Chart~*~Our Story~*~
~*~Labor Buddies with Sweet Turnip - Welcome Baby Girl 2/23/12 & Aluenna - Welcome Ivy 1/6/12~*~
DS Nathan 12/4/12
BFP: 3/31/15 EDD: 12/4/15
MC: 7/2011, 12/2011
BFP#1 5.27.10 DS became an angel at 21 weeks on 9.22.10
BFP#2 4.16.11 Healthy baby girl born 12.14.11
BFP#3 9.3.12 A healthy, bouncing baby SISTER on the way! EDD 5.12.13
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monica & kevin married 5.28.11
bfp 8.11.11 - m/c 8.17.11
bfp 11.11.11 - edd 7.25.12
I am so sorry you are going through this.
A kind of similar thing happened to me. Two days before my ultrasound, I started spotting. It was never a flow, but happened a few times over two days. When I thought I was 6w, I went in for an u/s, and they didn't see a baby or yolk sac. Unlike your dr, they told me it was probably an abnormal pg and I was going to miscarry.
So I stopped taking my prog supplements, and went on to think I was about to m/c naturally. I felt devastated for a whole week, but kind of wasn't surprised, as it was going to be my 3rd m/c, and I had already felt scared & defeated. During that week, I even had more spotting/bleeding and AF-like cramping.
Well, I went back a week later for a follow up (when I thought I was supposed to be 7w) and there was baby measuring 6w1d, with a yolk sac, and a heartbeat of 129. I thought there was no way I was a whole week off on my dating, considering I charted, used OPKs, had ewcm, and the timing of sex. I was so worried the baby was just not going to grow right.
However, since then, baby has made huge strides and is still growing.
Good luck, and keep us updated!!! Sending all of my T&Ps!
Child #1 June 2012
Child #2 Feb 2014
Child #3 Feb 16
BFP 3/9/17
((Hugs)) I am so sorry you don't have any answers. T&P's for you and your family.
BFP #1 6.19.11 ~ EDD 2.23.12 ~ CP on 6.22.11
BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
BFP #3 11.17.11~ EDD 7.31.12 ~ MC on 1.18.12
BFP #4 4.12.12 ~ EDD 12.25.12~ Born on 12.26.12
Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
FET 9/23/15 = BFFN