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Whiny petty vent

MnMShawMnMShaw member
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So my cousin just told me she is pregnant and I can't stop crying.  She has been off birth control for not even 2 months so she basically got it on the first try.  She didn't read TCOYF.  She did nothing special and got pregnant immediately.  I'm truly happy for her but so sad for me. TTC is mentally exhausting. 
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March 2012- Dx with PCOS, started metformin
July 2012- SA completely normal
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Re: Whiny petty vent

  • agranagran member
    not whiney or petty at all.  Life is never fair.  I wish it were so easy for everyone. 


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  • angelaggieangelaggie member
    I'm so sorry sweetie. You're allowed to be upset.
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  • kiarox2002kiarox2002
    I used to cry like a baby every time someone announced a pregnancy.  It's totally allowed.  (((hugs)))
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  • AustinBride06AustinBride06
    I wish I didn't know how you feel, but I do. :( hugs, honey!
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  • sandieleeannsandieleeann
    I also feel your pain.  I'm sorry.
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  • KristinD3KristinD3 member
    Dup post.
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  • KristinD3KristinD3 member

    imagesandieleeann:
    I also feel your pain.  I'm sorry.

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  • Audra_TorreyAudra_Torrey
    Friend I love you so much and I can only imagine what you are going thru and you know I am here if you need anything at all. I know I can't help with this physically but I will always listen. Love you!
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  • amyk927amyk927
    I'm sorry...it's okay.  I remember how hard it was everytime someone announced a pregnancy when I was TTC, then would make comments not knowing we'd been trying for a while about how fast it all happens.  Your day will come.
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  • SareBear30SareBear30
    Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. I know the feeling(s). I feel disappointed overall, disappointed with my body, worried that something is wrong and we are wasting time, jealous at her good fortune, and then ashamed that I'm not more happy for someone else! Big hug!
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  • MnMShawMnMShaw member
    Thanks ladies.  Last night was a sucky night and I appreciate all the kind words.
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    TTC #1 since February 2011
    BFP #1 1/14/12 EDD 9/24/12 m/c at 8w4d on 2/20/12
    March 2012- Dx with PCOS, started metformin
    July 2012- SA completely normal
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