Pregnant after a Loss

VERY nervous and cautiously intro'ing here...

Hi ladies..got a faint but visible BFP last night..I had some AF like cramping 6-9 dpo and last night at 10dpo faint line...took another test hours later and the line was lighter...took ANOTHER test this morning (not FMU) and the line was like the first hpt yesterday, light but visible...I have some cramping today...a little stronger than it has been.....but no spotting or anything...I am a nervous wreck..cant go get a beta today as I still dont have my car fixed (one tire got stolen last weds and over the holiday its taking a while for my rim to get here...)  I know I need to back away from the pee sticks I just really want to see a darker line and feel NO cramping!!  My previous loss was at 11 wks 4 days (mmc), bfp was in May and loss in July....

This was my first time Oing since the loss and only my second cycle (I have PCOS)...I know I gotta just put it all in God's hands...I just cant help but ALREADY worry :/  FX this is a take home baby! We'll see.....waiting to hear back from my dr's office....thanks ladies :)

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  • Congrats on the BFP, and I hope you have a H&H 9 months here! Try not to stress about the cramping. I experienced a lot of cramping during my first few weeks, and now I am four days away from my due date.

    Also, that totally sucks that someone stole your tire, I can't believe that that would happen! I hope you get to have your blood taken soon, and get some nice doubling betas as an early Christmas present.

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  • I'm so happy to see you here! So many congratulations!  I'm right there with you in being super nervous - you're right that stepping away from the sticks and trusting in that you're pregnant now and that's a great thing is the best way to go. 

    And if you're really wanting a blood draw today, maybe call a cab?  ;) 

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  • Congrats!!  Worry is completely normal and unfortunately hasn't eased much for me still!  That really stinks about your tire.  People are ridiculous!
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  • It's a scary place being PGAL. Cramps are normal this early and if there is no blood then just try to relax. Congrats and welcome
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  • Congrats!  Cramps are completely normal.  I had such bad cramps with DS I was sure that it was AF coming.  I had a party to go to that day so I just put in a tampon because I didn't want to have to worry about bleeding all over.  Well a few hours later when I went to the bathroom AF hadn't shown.  Cramping is just your ute saying, hey there's something in here!

    I'm a little disturbed by someone stealing only one tire.  That is insane!  And it sucks!

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  • Congrats and welcome!

    Try not to read too much into the darkness of the line on the tests.  There are too many factors (concentration of urine, the dye used on that specific test, etc.) for a comparison to really tell you anything at all except a yes or no.  Hopefully you can get in for betas soon to ease your mind! 

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  • Congrats and welcome!!! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!

    And someone seriously stole one tire?! That's really sucky- hopefully your car gets fixed soon and you can go for betas.  

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  • Congrats and Welcome !!
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  • Congrats!  Wishin you a H and H 9 months!

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  • Congrats!! It's great to see you over here! Wishing you an uneventful and H&H 9 months!
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  • Congratulations and welcome! I know cramping can be unnerving but it doesn't necessarily mean anything bad. I had a ton of cramping in the first tri. You said you are a worrier, well there's plenty of those here, you will fit right in!
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  • So excited to see you here! Congrats and h&h 9 months!
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  • Congratulations!  I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy.
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  • Congrats!! I didn't see a darker line until probably 5 days after the test I took at 10DPO.  It would take the full five minutes to come up and be really light.  A line is definitely a line thought! H&H 9 months!
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  • Congrats and welcome!
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  • Congrats and welcome!  I am so happy for you and wishing you a h&h 9 months.
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