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and here comes the nerves...

aadewittaadewitt member
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so last night I was cleaning (5 loads of laundry) and putting up xmas decorations.  I found out I was PG on Fri and have been feeling OK....not to miserable- yet.

Well as I was putting up the xmas decorations I was getting worn down, I took a few breaks and such, and I had some minor cramping (as I know is normal the 1st few weeks) well I had a flash back of my loss which was in Aug- I had been cleaning the night I started to spot.  So I got nervous freaked out a little, I told DH that I am going to be asking for his help a lot more now, and I plan on taking it as easy as I can (but not lazy).  I know cleaning didn't cause my m/c, but I want to do everything right that I possibly can do.  

But so far so good, no spotting and I feel just fine today. So it was just a mental thing.  

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  • pottermommypottermommy member

    We live on the mental side of things over here Stick out tongue  And yay on asking for help, nervous or not taking it easier (not lazy you are right) is always reccomended!!!

    Sorry you were having a scared moment or two.....  And really glad you are feeling alot better about it today!!

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  • aadewittaadewitt member
    Thanks! its just nice to know that there is someone out there who understands.  We haven't told anyone yet, and I just really need to talk to someone about all my feelings.  DH is OK at that stuff- but doens't get it. 
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  • orangegogglesorangegoggles member

    Good for you about asking for help. I thought the same thing yesterday when I was cleaning. Glad you feel better about it today :)

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  • pottermommypottermommy member

    imageaadewitt:
    Thanks! its just nice to know that there is someone out there who understands.  We haven't told anyone yet, and I just really need to talk to someone about all my feelings.  DH is OK at that stuff- but doens't get it. 

    No they usually don't...Well most of the time anyways...When I was freaking out at 17 weeks and went in for a HB check DH was on the phone with his mom and said, "no nothing is wrong we are just here b/c she thinks her bump is smaller, It's all in her head...."  Indifferent

    Yeah I wanted to kill him, but when they couldn't find the HB (he was being stealthy) and we had to go for an emergency U/S I wanted to scream "All in my head is it!!!" I mean yeah it was...but still... Yup I didn't talk to him for the whole rest of the day....

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  • E3A7AGGIEE3A7AGGIE member
    I have been taking it easy X100. My first pregnancy I didn't take too many precautions b/c I was naive. I would be lying if I said I didn't think I caused the m/c but I do sometimes. So this time, I WAY over-exaggerated everything I shouldn't do, and didn't do anything at all that was cautioned against. But it made me feel better, and there's still a bun in the oven, so I'm okay with it. :) And luckily, so is DH and he hasn't minded at all. 
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  • liesamliesam member
    imagepangnl79:

    Good for you about asking for help. I thought the same thing yesterday when I was cleaning. Glad you feel better about it today :)

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