Owen is our boys name. It will probably just be easier for him if you keep it as Owen so he isn't constantly correcting things
i wish i could be joking but my dad is the music teacher at a church so he owuld be mad. we had sex, all the time how bad i know but we dont want to wait and he said GREAT OH KAY! and I was really feeling the wets? down there- too embarsed to say- but he acted like man.
I would have mispronounced Eoghan as Eee - oh - gan. Sorry. Now, I know, but I don't think it's visually appealing. I would go with Owen. Make his life easier.
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I'm not into gaelic spellings. I'm not confident that children would like to have names that are so difficult to pronounce for most people in the area in which they live.
While they may be legit Gaelic spellings of the name, most people here do not know that. So it will get lumped in with the uniquely spelled children whether you want it to or not.
Personally I find it cruel to saddle a child with a name that will be butchered every first day of school, camp etc. I don't think the child will appreciate their name (despite the heritage) when they have to correct people from Day One.
(I admit that a couple of my name priorities is easy to say and easy to spell. So keep that in mind. It is a priority to me. It is not to others and I understand that.)
Remember, when it's spoken, it's all the same. And will your CHILD appreciate it being different and having to spell it ALL THE TIME?
I always find this rediculous. My name is Laura and I have to spell it for people. No matter what name you pick, people will misspell it. I love the traditional Irish/ Gaelic spellings.
To give you some perspective, my mother has a traditionally French spelled name Johanne. In English, Joanne. You wouldn't think a simple "H" would be a big deal, but she constantly has to correct people spelling her name Joanne or pronouncing her name as "Yo-Hanne" and thinking she is a he. My friend Kailagh constantly has to correct people who spell her name as Kayla. She has also been called "Kay-lag". It may seem like a nice idea to give a child a traditional but uncommon spelling, but that child is the one who will have to live with it for the rest of his/her life.
While they may be legit Gaelic spellings of the name, most people here do not know that. So it will get lumped in with the uniquely spelled children whether you want it to or not.
Personally I find it cruel to saddle a child with a name that will be butchered every first day of school, camp etc. I don't think the child will appreciate their name (despite the heritage) when they have to correct people from Day One.
(I admit that a couple of my name priorities is easy to say and easy to spell. So keep that in mind. It is a priority to me. It is not to others and I understand that.)
THIS exactly, although it is a legitly spelled name, 90% of people who see it will probably side eye it thinking you wanted to get creative. I think I would resent my parents for giving me such a differently spelt name that sounds so common. If it were an uncommon name atleast people would ask how its spelt instead of assuming.
Owen comes from the name Eoghan (which the the first spelling of the name). It was translated to English as Owen.
I know a few people who spell their name Eoin and Eoghan, my husband's grandfather spelled it Eoghan.
At first my vote was for Owen. But seeing that baby's great grandfather spelled it Eoghan, I'm immediately drawn to that spelling now. Most people will butcher it. And thats annoying. My name is KathArine and no one ever spelled it right. And I go by my middle name but I've had to correct people my whole life and explain why it's Katharine spelled with "a" (after Katharine Hepburn) and why I didn't go by my first name Laura. Sure all the explanations got old but I also love my name.
I think the family aspect trumps it all personally.
I vote Eoghan!
I'm not into gaelic spellings. I'm not confident that children would like to have names that are so difficult to pronounce for most people in the area in which they live.
I agree with this. Would you name your child Ekwueme just because it's a legit spelling of a Southeastern Nigerian tribe in Africa ? I really like Owen although it is very popular. Most people around where I live probably wouldn't even know how to pronounce the gaelic versions.
I have an Owen but he was going to be Eoin but we changed our mind in the operating room. I still have a tinge of regret inside for not sticking to Eoin. I think that it is a beautiful name. Good luck with whatever you decide!
Remember, when it's spoken, it's all the same. And will your CHILD appreciate it being different and having to spell it ALL THE TIME?
I always find this rediculous. My name is Laura and I have to spell it for people. No matter what name you pick, people will misspell it. I love the traditional Irish/ Gaelic spellings.
This. My name is Dawn and I always have to spell it, sometimes even have to explain how it's said as I get (mostly from East Coasters) "Is it Don (sort of pronounced like Dahn) or Dawwwwwn" (I can't even figure out how to explain this one but just think of Mike Meyer's coffee talk lady when you say it) when I pronounce it as if it's fawn or lawn.
To give you some perspective, my mother has a traditionally French spelled name Johanne. In English, Joanne. You wouldn't think a simple "H" would be a big deal, but she constantly has to correct people spelling her name Joanne or pronouncing her name as "Yo-Hanne" and thinking she is a he. My friend Kailagh constantly has to correct people who spell her name as Kayla. She has also been called "Kay-lag". It may seem like a nice idea to give a child a traditional but uncommon spelling, but that child is the one who will have to live with it for the rest of his/her life.
Re: Spelling of the name "Owen"
That's the majority of my family's thoughts.... even though I love that version!
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Owen comes from the name Eoghan (which the the first spelling of the name). It was translated to English as Owen.
I know a few people who spell their name Eoin and Eoghan, my husband's grandfather spelled it Eoghan.
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While they may be legit Gaelic spellings of the name, most people here do not know that. So it will get lumped in with the uniquely spelled children whether you want it to or not.
Personally I find it cruel to saddle a child with a name that will be butchered every first day of school, camp etc. I don't think the child will appreciate their name (despite the heritage) when they have to correct people from Day One.
(I admit that a couple of my name priorities is easy to say and easy to spell. So keep that in mind. It is a priority to me. It is not to others and I understand that.)
I always find this rediculous. My name is Laura and I have to spell it for people. No matter what name you pick, people will misspell it. I love the traditional Irish/ Gaelic spellings.
Personally, I'd go with Owen.
To give you some perspective, my mother has a traditionally French spelled name Johanne. In English, Joanne. You wouldn't think a simple "H" would be a big deal, but she constantly has to correct people spelling her name Joanne or pronouncing her name as "Yo-Hanne" and thinking she is a he. My friend Kailagh constantly has to correct people who spell her name as Kayla. She has also been called "Kay-lag". It may seem like a nice idea to give a child a traditional but uncommon spelling, but that child is the one who will have to live with it for the rest of his/her life.
THIS exactly, although it is a legitly spelled name, 90% of people who see it will probably side eye it thinking you wanted to get creative. I think I would resent my parents for giving me such a differently spelt name that sounds so common. If it were an uncommon name atleast people would ask how its spelt instead of assuming.
I think the family aspect trumps it all personally. I vote Eoghan!
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I agree with this. Would you name your child Ekwueme just because it's a legit spelling of a Southeastern Nigerian tribe in Africa ? I really like Owen although it is very popular. Most people around where I live probably wouldn't even know how to pronounce the gaelic versions.
This. My name is Dawn and I always have to spell it, sometimes even have to explain how it's said as I get (mostly from East Coasters) "Is it Don (sort of pronounced like Dahn) or Dawwwwwn" (I can't even figure out how to explain this one but just think of Mike Meyer's coffee talk lady when you say it) when I pronounce it as if it's fawn or lawn.
I totally agree. Spell it Owen.