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Was supposed to be announcing the good news....

lindsayquinnsylindsayquinnsy
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
This was supposed to be such a happy weekend.  Now, instead of being glowy and happy I have to get one of my friends to drive me to the doctors to take this pill to make my miscarriage happen.  ("Nature taking it's course" turned into "Nature taking its time..")  I will now spend the weekend with cramps and crying, and not mooning over baby names like I was so looking forward too.  There is not enough Ben and Jerry's and tissues in the world to help me today.   This is the worst feeling ever.  I can't wait for it to be done.  The waiting and knowing its still in there is driving me crazy.  I KNOW "we'll try again" I KNOW "it wasn't meant to be" and all that other nice stuff that people try to cheer you up with,  I KNOW.  But its not okay TODAY.  Thanks for listening.  Is there anyone else out there waiting for their miscarriage to just be over with? 
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Re: Was supposed to be announcing the good news....

  • HopingforChangeHopingforChange member
    I miscarried in August, so I am not waiting right now.  But, I do want to say how truly sorry I am for your loss and your ruined holiday. And, yes, some days there is nothing that anyone can say to comfort or to help you.  I had one of those yesterday, and my loss was months ago.  It's less now, but some days, it sneaks up on me.  I am so sorry.  We are here to support you.  ((hugs)) and prayers that tomorrow will be a better day. 
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  • lindsayquinnsylindsayquinnsy
    Thank you for your kindness.  It will happen for us soon and this will all be a sad memory right?
    BFP: 10/3/11 Missed m/c: 11/23/11 D&C 11/29/11 BabyFruit Ticker
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  • lex382lex382 member
    I'm so sorry you're going through this... I'm towards the end of my miscarriage right now, just waiting for bleeding to stop.  Saying that it's the hardest thing I've ever gone through is a massive understatement.  I'm looking forward to it being done because then I feel like I can more fully start the healing process (although I'm not sure that there is ever going to be full healing from this?). Also, all the "nice stuff" people say agitated me too - I know that it most likely happened because something was wrong with the baby and I know we'll try again soon, but it doesn't help the giref around this loss... I hope you have a lot of support around you this weekend.  
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  • Mare15Mare15

    imagelindsayquinnsy:
    Thank you for your kindness.  It will happen for us soon and this will all be a sad memory right?

    This is my hope too.  I hope that we will both have the happiness we seek too.  I know that I felt terrible leading up to my miscarriage and then worse afterwards.  I hope that you can mourn and get to a place you're okay with soon.  *hug*

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