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Yesterday I got my BFP.  I am 4 weeks and 2 days.  I was super nervous at 1st, then after I told DH I found it funny, now I am just hoping and praying.

Although this is my 1st PG after the loss it feels bitter sweet, I feel like I can't get to excited for this just yet. 

And I have a  question.  I had only been TTCAL for 1 cycle (lucky I know, and didn't this was going to happen so soon)  Should I say something on the TTCAL board? I have posted some things, but since I haven't been on there long (been on the board since my loss in Aug) I don't want to be mean and post when I am still relatively new. 

 Thanks!  

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  • jen629jen629 member
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    Yesterday I got my BFP.  I am 4 weeks and 2 days.  I was super nervous at 1st, then after I told DH I found it funny, now I am just hoping and praying.

    Although this is my 1st PG after the loss it feels bitter sweet, I feel like I can't get to excited for this just yet. 

    And I have a  question.  I had only been TTCAL for 1 cycle (lucky I know, and didn't this was going to happen so soon)  Should I say something on the TTCAL board? I have posted some things, but since I haven't been on there long (been on the board since my loss in Aug) I don't want to be mean and post when I am still relatively new. 

     Thanks!  

    congrats and welcome!...I would say since you were only on TTCAL one cycle I would opt to not announce there but that is my personal opinion..I would not want you to get snark on such a happy day for you..if anyone knows you they will probably lurk here too ..good luck:)!
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    Yay! Congratulations! I know it's difficult to be excited right now as the nerves have a way of overpowering, but I'll be hoping you get to stay for a nice, boring 9 months!

    As far as a ttcal announcement, I recognize your siggy pic, but I think if you feel at all hesitant, perhaps you should just let them find you here to congratulate you.
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    Yesterday I got my BFP.  I am 4 weeks and 2 days.  I was super nervous at 1st, then after I told DH I found it funny, now I am just hoping and praying.

    Although this is my 1st PG after the loss it feels bitter sweet, I feel like I can't get to excited for this just yet. 

    And I have a  question.  I had only been TTCAL for 1 cycle (lucky I know, and didn't this was going to happen so soon)  Should I say something on the TTCAL board? I have posted some things, but since I haven't been on there long (been on the board since my loss in Aug) I don't want to be mean and post when I am still relatively new. 

     Thanks!  

    congrats and welcome!...I would say since you were only on TTCAL one cycle I would opt to not announce there but that is my personal opinion..I would not want you to get snark on such a happy day for you..if anyone knows you they will probably lurk here too ..good luck:)!

    Congratulations - that's great news. Welcome to PgAL. I agree with Jen. I was on TTCAL for 6 months and didn't announce there. They'll find you over here.

    All the best for a healthy pregnancy!

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    imageaadewitt:

    Yesterday I got my BFP.  I am 4 weeks and 2 days.  I was super nervous at 1st, then after I told DH I found it funny, now I am just hoping and praying.

    Although this is my 1st PG after the loss it feels bitter sweet, I feel like I can't get to excited for this just yet. 

    And I have a  question.  I had only been TTCAL for 1 cycle (lucky I know, and didn't this was going to happen so soon)  Should I say something on the TTCAL board? I have posted some things, but since I haven't been on there long (been on the board since my loss in Aug) I don't want to be mean and post when I am still relatively new. 

     Thanks!  

    Congratulations and welcome. Here's to a happy and healthy 9 months.

    I wouldn't post anything on the TTCAL board. I lost my first LO and conceived directly afterwards, and although I had been lurking, and I think posted a few times, I didn't post anything over there. It can be very upsetting to people who have been trying for a while, and I wanted to be sensitive to that.

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  • mrs.julia.gooliamrs.julia.goolia

    Welcome and congrats !! The nerves and the bittersweet feelings are totally normal. Hang in there---pgal is tough !

    I didn't post on ttcal and was there for 5 months--they can find you here if they want, in my opinion.  

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  • aadewittaadewitt member
    Thanks ladies!  I am going to take a test again in a few days, to just make sure.  I had my loss at 10 weeks- so its going to be a long few months to make it past that big milestone.  Though I am hoping it will go by fast with xmas coming up!
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    Congratulations!
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  • PachitaPachita member

    Congratulations!  I also agree with Jen on this one. Stick around here and I really hope you get to stay for the next 9 months!

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    Lurking from TTCAL Stick out tongue Congrats! H & H 9 months to you!
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  • coastalmainecoastalmaine member
    congratulations!
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  • kevinandmonica2011kevinandmonica2011
    Welcome and congrats!! Best wishes for a H&H 9 months!!
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  • nursemama2benursemama2be
    Congratulations! It's really hard to be excited and happy but today you are pregnant. Good luck
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    Lurker coming in to say congrats!!!
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  • xoladiebugxoladiebug member
    Congrats and welcome.  I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months.
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    Congratulations!  H&H 9 months to you!
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    Congrats and welcome to the board!

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  • ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    Congrats and welcome!  I agree with what Jen629 said re: an announcement.  Wishing you a H&H 9 months!
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    Congratulations and welcome! 
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