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First T-giving w/ SO.

PrincessFiona9PrincessFiona9 member
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SO and his mom and sisters would like me to come to lunch with their family. I want to go but 1) I am worried about DD. She has entered the terrible twos and I will feel so embarrassed if she's misbehaving and throwing fits at SO's grandparents house. Especially when it's the first time I meet them. Plus I already have that single parent guilt going on, like they won't like me because I am a SP. 2) I have a few family members coming into town today that I want to spend time with. SO, DD and I would be gone for at least 5 hours tomorrow since it takes like an hour to get to SO's grandparents house.

I am thinking about not going this year. EX will have DD next Thanksgiving, so I could go next year. I just can't decide! Tongue Tied

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Re: First T-giving w/ SO.

  • PrincessFiona9PrincessFiona9 member
    imagetifanico:

    I know I will be in the minority but I would definitely spend the holiday with my family and not with a SO. In my mind, BF`s come and go but family is always there, specially one that is a supportive as yours. 

    By next year, you will know the relationship is more solid and you will not have DD so you are a little more free to go wherever you want.  

    Just my 0.02. 

    You pretty much summed up how I'm feeling. SO will be completely fine with it if I choose not to go. I mostly feel guilty because his mom and sister have been asking if I'm going to go.
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