Baby #3 is being stubborn. While the official due date was November 15, I calculated it (based on temping and ovulation) as more like the 23. So I'm not freaked out that it's late. However, DS was two days early by his official due date (and five days early by my calculation), so I really thought this one would be here by now. We're now running into problems with my mom having to get back to work (out of state) and BIL and his GF being able to stay less than 48 hours over Thanksgiving. We're going to run out of coverage for DD and DS, and I'm stressing a bit. I'm also now scheduled for a non-stress test and biophysical profile, which is complicated by offices being closed and will be tricky with two little ones since DH is saving his time off for paternity leave.
I've researched "natural induction" stuff but am interested in anything someone swears by. For example, I don't want to go spend $$$ and time hunting down red raspberry leaf tea if it's really not all it's cracked up to be. I'm already 3+ centimeters and at least 50% effaced, so the midwives said that Baby is ready and it shouldn't take much once labor gets going...he/she just needs some motivation. If you found a method that worked for you, I'd love to hear it...I'm ready to get this show on the road. Thanks!
Re: Successful DIY get-labor-started techniques?
it might've been a coincidence since DD was 4 days late but I went for 3 1.5mi walks and drank 3 cups of raspberry leaf tea the day before I had her. You can find it at Wegman's
good luck, I was wondering if you had the baby yet!
Make plans you're actually looking forward to that you can't do with a baby in tow - for sure the LO will arrive then. We made plans on Tuesday to take off work and go to the zoo on Friday to walk a ton in hopes of moving things along - my water broke Thursday morning.
I also took Evening Primrose Oil every day for about a week before DS arrived. More info on it from my midwives website: https://www.midwiferycareassociates.com/EPOrev2011.pdf
They also said putting warm compresses on the breasts a few times a day may help but I didn't try that.
GL!!
ETA: I got the EPO at whole foods so it wasn't too hard to find
LOL!
I ate pineapple and drank red raspberry leaf tea.
I bet the bath is a great idea - it totally helped me progress super fast when I was in labor, so it seems to reason it would also help get things going. Maybe just the relaxation of it all will help things along. GL!
Sex, EPO, + walking a ton = baby
I walked up a huge hill in the July heat a few hours before I went into labor.
Good luck!!
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- RRL will not induce your labor. it is a myth that it causes contractions! it is a muscle toner and is most helpful for toning the uterus when consumed over time. that being said, if consumed in large quantities (10+ cups/day), it might stimulate the uterus, if all other conditions were good for labor. the Old Town Coffee and Spice shop on S. Lee (or is it Union? it's the last street before the river) St. in Alexandria often has it loose leaf (much better flavor than prebagged RRL).
- R&R is wonderful for moms past their EDDs. when the body and mind are relaxed, the body can begin it's work. get a massage, take a relaxing bath.
- acupuncture & acupressure are known for starting labor. you can google acupressure points. i really like Njemile (en-JAY-meel-ay) www.fertileliving.com for prenatal acupuncture. she's in old town, alexandria. tell her lindsey referred you!
- walking will help move the baby down, putting pressure on the cervix, which may help release hormones that get labor started. rolling and moving your hips in big wide circles on an exercise ball (or on the floor, hands and knees) will do the same.
- sex with insemination. semen contains prostaglandins, hormones that serve to soften and ripen the cervix. EPO does the same thing. you can insert it and/or consume it orally. if you insert, do so at night and put a liner in your underwear. there is no need to pierce the capsule, your body heat will melt it down.
- the eggplant parm above is delicious!! i double the sauce and add tons of extra garlic and thyme (thyme may help contractions get started) and serve it with pasta.
here are some other suggestions i give my students who have passed their EDD:
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Go Underground: Turn off your phone,
stay away from email. Seriously, screen your calls. The repetition of ?When do
you think you will go into labor?? or my personal favorite, ?Why haven?t they
induced you yet?? is enough to make any woman go crazy!
Thanks for all the tips. I've been trying a few of them (marital relations, EPO orally, etc.) without obvious effect. The weather hasn't cooperated for walking - maybe I should hit up our ancient elliptical. And some I'd never heard of before (cinnamon?) but am willing to try. Focused relaxation is something I haven't put as a priority, so a hot bath is on my agenda for tonight. I will be going through the list today and seeing what I can manage while watching DD and DS. And it would be nice if "host three additional people for a full Thanksgiving meal" counts as "making plans?"...
If I we didn't have the time crunch of having no one to watch DD and DS, I'd be perfectly fine with #3 waiting as long as he/she wanted! I enjoy having a predictable daily schedule and getting (relatively) good sleep at night
I think this and the activity involved with actually getting things ready for 3 additional people just might do the trick;)