June 2012 Moms

could use some thoughts and prayers.

Well today was the day we have been dreading. Thankfully everything was okay with the baby and it's measuring right along but we got a terrible phone call. It is official that my husband has cancer. He is going in for surgery tomorrow at 22years old for inguinal lymph node dissection. He has Hodgkin's Lymphoma and will be starting treatments shortly after. The also believe that the cells have moved to his testicles and they will be scanned as well as the rest of his body Dec 1st for spreading.

We could really use some thoughts and prayers right now. I am stressed and worried. He is active duty army and they will be releasing him from the military early due to the disease. Which means on Christmas day, we will have to up and relocate to PA that is 8 hours away. Praying that this is a blessing in disguise and I know the Lord won't give us more than we can handle. 

Thank you ladies! I really just needed to get this off my chest. I feel like everything is caving in.

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  • I can not possibly tell you how sorry I am to hear that you and your husband are going through this right now. I will definitely be keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us posted.
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  • I started crying just reading this.

    Im so sorry that so much is being loaded on you right now. It must feel so overwhelming. It sounds like your husband is young and healthy and will be able to fight this hard.

    My thoughts and prayers are definitely with you. Come talk to us ladies any time you need to, that is what we are here for.

    xoxo 

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  • I'm so sorry to hear this.  I've never had to go through something like that, but have had many other struggles.  Jeremiah 29:11 is my favorite Bible verse to hold on in hard times.  God has his plans!  He will take care of you!
  • So sorry to hear this!  Hope the treatments & everything go well. 
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  • So sorry to hear this, please keep us all updated. I can only imagine how scary this news must be at a time like this, but count your blessings and try to stay positive. God is good ALL the time, not only when things are going well, and he has a divine plan for you and your family. You can rest in that when worry creeps in. Whatever happens, God is going to take care of you and yours. Blessings and take care.
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  • I am so sorry. I will definitely keep you and your family in my prayers. I hope that everything turns out ok.
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  • Thank you ladies. I don't know really what to expect but I know somehow we will make it through this. It's going to be a very long road but I really appreciate your support. 
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  • There are few words that will console you both right now - but know that many, many T&Ps are with you both during this challenging time. The fact that YH is in the army tells me he is strong and brave, which will help him in the fight. If it makes you feel ANY better, my aunt had Hodgkin's Lymphoma at 19 years old (almost 30 years ago) and went on to beat the cancer and have a family of five.
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  • My T&P are with you and your family right now. My DH has some pretty severe medical issues, and if you need to talk to someone, feel free to send me a PM. I know how stressful it can be trying to be strong for him yet feeling like everything is falling apart around you, and still trying to try to be stress free for the baby.
  • Sending you T, P, and warm wishes!

    My DH's dad and aunt both had lymphoma and did great with some radiation, if that gives you any comfort at all! They have both been clear for a few years now.

    Do you have any family or friends in PA? 

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  • What heavy news. I'm so sorry and wish I could give you a big hug. Praying for you.
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  • I'm so sorry. T&P going to you and your husband.

    Please take care, and know we are all here for you.
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  • I'm so sorry that you're both dealing with this.  T&P are with you. 
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  • Your dh will most certainly be in my prayers and thoughts. This is a tough time and I'm sure that the joy of the moment seems to be dimmed by the hard and scary moment of finding cancer. Keep us updated on his progress through chemo and let us know if there is anything that you need.
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  • I'm so sorry about your DH's diagnosis.  T&Ps for both of you.
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  • That is awful. I am so sorry you're going through this. I will keep you in my thoughts.
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  • Sending positive thoughts to you and your family. 

    If you have any questions about what the doctors are telling you, feel free to PM me and I'll expand more.

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  • You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I cannot begin to imagine what you and your hubby are going through. I am sending many prayers up for the three of you now and as the year continue's. Prayerfully his surgery will go well as will the treatments. Hugs to you!!
  • I'm so sorry you guys have to deal with this. You will definately be in my T&P's. I hope his surgery goes well today. G/L.
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  • I'm reading this very late but I hope that the surgery went well.  Keep us posted and we'll be praying for your family.  **hugs**
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