My twin girls are almost a month old. My question is this, I have them on a every three hour feeding schedule during the day and then we push for 4 at night.
My question is this, if they are still sleeping past three hours during the day, should I wake them or hope they make it until four hours?
I thought I was told to keep them on three hours so they get more calories during the day, but thought I would see what other MOM's are doing.
Thoughts?
Thanks!
Re: Feeding Schedule help please
I kept them on an every-three-hours (loosely) daytime schedule for the entire time they were nursing or on bottles. My reason at first was exactly what you said: I wanted them to get more calories into the day so they would sleep through the night. Then, after they started sleeping through, I didn't want to mess with it because I was terrified it would mess up the sleep, and also they seemed to want to eat every three hours, so I was never compelled to make an adjustment.
When I say "loosely," I mean that within a range of 2 1/2 - 3 1/2 hours, I'd sort of let them lead me. If they seemed hungry at 2 1/2, I'd go with it. If we were busy and it stretched out to 3 1/2, I'd go with it. In general it averaged out to about 3 hours. I never let it get to 4 hours.
I split the middle with a 3.5 hour feeding schedule. I wanted them to get their calories during the day, 7 feedings a day was all I could handle. Babywise says to keep them on every 3 hours until they are STTN and have dropped the dreamfeed. For us, we went to a 4 hour schedule at 5 months but continued the dreamfeed until 7 months or so because that worked better for us.
A MoM friend fed her girls on an every 4 hour schedule starting at probably 6 or 8 weeks and I'm not sure how or if it affected their nighttime sleep. I think a lot of that depends on your babies. I had one with reflux and, even though she could have gone every 4 hours pretty early on, probably, she couldn't get enough in a feeding and keep it down to make that work for us. Because if you move from an every 3 hour schedule to an every 4 hour schedule, you need to move those oz of formula to other feedings. Mine just couldn't hold that much down until she was a little older.
any time we let the boys go to 4 hours between meals in the daytime they slept horribly at night.... the longest we let them go was 3.5 hours - we'd wake them if it went that long. most of the time they woke right at 3 hours to eat so it wasn't a huge deal.
We didn't get away from every 3 hours during the day until about 8 months. And we really had to load up the solids then. Otherwise, they sleep like sh*t.