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XP: Over before it started

Well, it looks like I'm having a chemical pregnancy.

I'd be lying if I said I'd never tested so early before, but that's neither here nor there.

Thursday morning I swear I *felt* pregnant.  Similar mild cramping and discomfort to what I had just hours before I got my last BFP.  So, that afternoon I took an IC and then an FRER, and both came up with a faint, but distinct +.

Friday morning, I tested again, with FMU, and I thought they looked slightly lighter, but tried not to worry too much.  The last 2 days, they've gotten progressively lighter, to the point where this morning I'm not even fully convinced it's still +.  And now I started spotting this afternoon.

I realize I'm only 11dpo today, and most women wouldn't even have known.  But I'm still pretty upset.  I'm going to call my doctor in the morning, see where we go from here, probably go in for betas and confirm.

I was surprised, but hopeful, to get a BFP our first cycle TTC after the m/c...  *sigh*

Here we go again....
TTC #1 ♥ since 1/11 
BFP #1 8/21/11 - EDD 5/1/12 - M/C 9/25/11 ♥ BFP #2 11/17/11 - EDD 8/1/12 - C/P 11/20/11
DH (37) SA = mediocre  Me (31) Low AMH/DOR, Septate Uterus (repaired via Hysteroscopy)
IUI 1-3 = 3 BFNs ♥ IVF 11/12 = BFFN :( ♥ IUI 4 + Injects 1/13 = BFN :(IUI 5 + Injects = cancelled due to cyst
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Re: XP: Over before it started

  • I'm so sorry. :(
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. Fingers crossed that everything is ok.
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  • I'm so sorry Req :( Lots of thoughts and hugs to you!

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    08.2008 | Diagnosed with PCOS
    11.2011 | First appointment with RE
    12.2011 | HSG reveals 100% blockages in both tubes
    02.2012 | Laparoscopy & Hysteroscopy to unblock tubes...success!

    { BFP # 1 | April 1, 2012 }
    Jonah Alexander is here! Born 12.07.12 @ 39w3d

    { BFP # 2 | May 22, 2013 }
    Chemical Pregnancy :(

    { BFP # 3 | February 12, 2014 }
    So far, so good! We love you, little peanut!


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  • Req, I'm so sorry.  Sad  I saw this early today & my heart breaks for you. 

    I truly hope that you get you take home baby soon.

    6th cycle of meds/iui combos = BFP!! - EDD 1/21/13 <3
    Born via emergency c-section - 8lb, 19.75 in, 100% stubborn BFP Chart
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    8 cycles of unmedicated trying = BFP!! - EDD 1/10/18  <3
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss :(
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  • I'm so sorry. (Hugs)
    After many years and tears our baby boy is finally here
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  • I'm so sorry dear. ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry :(
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  • I am so sorry love. I really wish there was something I could do for you.  ((hugs))

    Please don't hesitate to vent to me!

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  • I'm sorry, Req.
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  • I'm so sorry.  You have every right to be upset...even if, as you said, you were "only" 11dpo.  You experienced a loss and that is extremely painful.  Last year, I received my BFP at 17dpo and 5 days later I started bleeding heavily.  Yes, I was "only" 22dpo...but it was one of the hardest things I've ever been through in my life.  Hang in there. 
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this :( ((HUGS))
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  • (((HUGS)))

    I'm so sorry, hon.

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  • I'm so sorry. T&P for you.
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    TTC 2.0
    Surprise BFP! Beta#1:37 Beta#2: 97

    TTC 1.0
    IUI #1=BFN
    IUI #2=BFP! Beta#1:87 Beta #2:1050
    ~It's a GIRL!~
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  • I <3 you Reqsies! ((huge massive hugs))
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    MFI, Lap on 7/21/11 - Stage III/IV Endo and Polyps removed by D&C
    IVF #1 with ICSI - ER 1/20 (16R, 12M, 10F), ET 1/23 (1-10 cell and 1-8cell transferred), BFP on 1/31 Beta #1 on 2/3 = 68, Beta #2 on 2/6 = 261 EDD 10/12/12  
    Baby girl born 9/22/12

    FET #1 - 9/16/13 - BFN

    IVF #2 - ER 11/11/13 (24R, 18M, 16F), ET 11/16 (2 Grade A blasts)
    BFP on 11/23 Beta #1 = 76 EDD 8/2/14


  • I'm so sorry darling... =(  Knowing earlier doesn't make it any less difficult...I'm so sorry you are having to go through this again.  Stay strong... if you ever need to chat, I'm here.
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  • of course you're upset - a loss is heartbreaking at any time. I'm so sorry. Big hugs to you, Req, and best wishes for a positive meeting with your doctor, and a sticky BFP really soon.
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  • Big hugs!  
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  • So sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so sorry! ((big fat squishy hugs)) 

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  • I'm sorry. :(
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  • Req, that sucks big time! I am so sorry. I hope you get your sticky BFP really soon! ((Big Hugs))
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  • I am so very sorry to hear this. ((hugs))
    TTC#1 Oct 2010
    DS born May 2013
    TFAS Feb 2016
    EDD 07/29/2017
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  • So sorry for your loss!
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    TTC since August 2011 (Me-29, DH-32).
    4/28/2012 - SA: 5% motility.
    5/21/2012 - SA: same results.
    Only shot is IVF (ICSI)
    5/31/2012 - HSG: all clear
    6/22/2012 - appt with RE, confirmed ICSI is necessary.
    8/3/2012 - First IVF Monitoring Appointment
    8/17/2012 - Egg Retrieval (retrieved 23 eggs, 3 made it to freezer)
    8/18/2012 - OHSS - hospitalized, need to wait one cycle to transfer embryo(s) due to OHSS
    8/29/2012 - begin meds for frozen cycle
    10/12/2012 - FET one embryo
    10/24/2012 - Beta #1: 442
    10/26/2012 - Beta #2: 947
    10/29/2012 - Beta #3: 2900!
    11/15/2012 - first u/s: baby measuring perfect, heart rate is right on target
    2/6/2013 - A/S looked perfect. Still team green by choice!
    7/6/2013 - Baby girl born after 44 hours of un-medicated labor, 2 hours of pushing, and emergency c-section due to transverse head.  DD was perfectly healthy at 6 pounds, 14 ounces.  We are thrilled!!
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