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Pardon my flakey-ness

Allie-JoAllie-Jo member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

DH and I's schedules are flip-flopped for the time being, so I try to actually get out and keep myself busy as I use to spend my down-time with him and now he is either sleeping or at work when I have down time.  So I have not been on the board as much as I want to be, but I am thinking of you all often.

Buckeyedbaby-  I am SOOO upset you are back, it's not fair that you have to go through this again.  My ectopic was removed with surgery too so if you need a friend, I am here.

And hello to mork and cmumma and any other people who joined since I have been MIA.

I am having a lot of emotional issues this cycle.  My med break took all of 3 days for me to get from a "this will be less stressful for me" to a "I feel like I am wasting my time".  I came to realized my first EDD in December is around the corner and unless there is a miracle, I will not be pregnant for it.  Kinda breaks my heart a little, and so I have dealt with that too.  I thought I would get into shape, but my biggest supporter (DH) isn't here to support me, and because we eat at different times, we are doing meals that are convenient rather then healthy.  So if I am not on here as much as I normally am, I am sorry, I just don't think I am awful supportive when I am so down myself.  But I do miss you all and I think about you all the time.  You ladies have been so wonderful to me, and I don't want you to think I was forgetting you! 

TTC since June 2009 DX: PCOS October 2010
6 medicated cycles, 2 pregnancies, 1 ectopic April 2011, Early Miscarriage August 2011
7 more cycles, 1 IUI, No success after last pregnancy
7/1/2012 No more fertility coverage
8/17/2012 started pursuing domestic infant adoption!
11/26/2012 HOME STUDY APPROVED!!!
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  • delinodelino member
    i am sorry you are feeling so down in the dumps.  i hate the feeling that times a wasting, but i hope the break helps in some way wether it be physical or emotional.
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
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  • jenn0021jenn0021 member
    We understand that sometimes life gets in the way of bumping. Thanks for checking in on us though. Sending you ((hugs)) and thinking of you as you prepare for your EDD in December. I always found the days leading up to it were the hardest.
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    BFP #1     07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles     - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results
    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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  • cmumamacmumama member

    Hi and thank you for the welcome!

    I'm so sorry  that your EDD is coming up.  Mine was back in Aug and it was rough, but I tried not to dwell on it by keeping myself busy.  Do what you need to do that day whether it be pampering yourself or laying around in your pj's all day.  Smile

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending hugs, I also have a December edd. Hope you and dh get back on the same schedule soon.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    (((HUGS))) to you.  I'm sorry things have been rough.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
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    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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