Mia is now swinging her leg up over the crib rail, and it's only a matter of time for that spider monkey to flip over it. We can just remove the side of the crib to make it a toddler bed, but my question is how do you contain them? Door closed or door open with baby gate?
Re: Walk me through the crib-to-free range bed transition
We've always closed the girls' door at night and kept doing that after we transitioned to the toddler beds and I added a childproof door knob cover on the inside of their door too. We toddler-proofed the entire room at that point too--removed a double bed that had been in there and a rocker/recliner (which we've since put back in because they don't bother it when we're not in the room). We also made sure the dresser and bookcase were anchored well.
At night, my girls are good about staying in bed and they generally stay in bed in the morning after they wake up for a while (I usually have to wake them up on the weekdays). Then they get up and get books of their shelf to "read". Naps are more of an issues but I'm not sure how much that is toddler bed vs. being in the room with sis. At the moment I seperate them at naptime and one sometimes sleeps in her room in her bed and the other sleeps in a pack n play in a different room.
***Twin fraternal girls born at 35w6d in 12/2008***
Same here. We didn't do a toddler bed, just went straight to a regular bed, but we have always slept with doors closed. Once he was in his bed we put doorknob covers on the inside of his bedroom door and his bathroom door (so he couldn't get in). His room is childproofed, but honestly he never gets out of bed on his own. Even now, and he is 3.5.
We took off the side of the crib and use the toddler portion. We have a baby gate in the door so he can't wander. : )
We will be transitioning to a dbl bed for Max (convertible) soon though, and moving his room so we can use the nursery for the new baby.
At first we just closed the door because he couldn't open it. Then later on, I wrongly assumed that if Owen woke up, he would come straight to find me. I woke up to him playing with his musical potty at 4 am. Gave me a heart attack! So, then we put the baby gate on his door. I usually wouldn't put it on until I went to bed. He likes the door open now until he falls asleep. The last few months he has grown out of wandering. He hardly ever wakes up and gets out of bed, but he will come to get in bed with us now so I don't worry much. Plus, we added chain locks to all the outside doors so he can't get out of the house without us. That's reassuring.
The transition really went way smoother than I ever thought possible!
I went straight to a twin bed on the floor (we did this cool bed that could convert to bunks from ikea ) I close the door and have childproof doorknob cover on the inside to make sure he didn't accidentally lock himself inside. You can also replace the doorknob with one that doesn't have a lock. Be careful about just turning it around. My son accidentially locked me in one day when I tried that. You can order doorknob covers on amazon that cover the lock. I couldn't find the ones that cover locks anywhere in atlanta.
Other big tip is take the crib down and get it out of site.
We did something similar to this. When we switched Ethan he did awesome the first night. Never got out. Then the excitement of a big boy bed wore off and he kept getting out and hanging out by his door. He would lay on the floor and kick it, call for us, put his little fingers under it, talk to the dogs through it... It was funny but then I was ready for it to stop. He did this for several nights and fell asleep there. It was hard to open the door (because he was laying against it) to get him up and into bed. After a few days of this I decided to make him stay in his bed. We watched him on the monitor and every time he got out we went in, no fun just business and said "You need to stay in your bed." and put him back in. He did it for awhile that night but soon gave up and stayed in his bed. Ever since then he has never gotten out. Even when he is restless and having trouble falling asleep (sometimes at nap), he will wiggle around and get wild, even pretty much stand on his head and do somersaults in there but he never gets out. In the morning, he lays there and calls for us until we come and get him out. So we never had to do the baby gate or door knob locks or anything. It felt kind of like sleep training that night but it worked for us. Oh, and he is in one of those little toddler beds.
Thank you all! I'm going to put my money on the "trash her room until she passes out" type of scenario, but you are giving me hope
Shmoo is growing up!