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How much sex are you having??? (clicky poll)

monkeypants23monkeypants23 member
in April 2012 Moms
Just curious wat everyone else is doing - all the books say you're sex drive goes up during 2nd trimester and im not feeling that at all..... we went from pre pregnancy twice a week, to once a week..... to we havent done it in the past 2 weeks cause im just uncomfortable and tired all the time......[Poll]
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  • wwnbwwwnbw member
    More than twice a week.
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  • melody78melody78 member
    I wish it could be more, but sadly my doc put me on pelvic rest due to a low lying anterior placenta Crying Very sad days for me...
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  • mrs_j_may_08mrs_j_may_08
    We are at about once a week, which is down from 2-4 times/week pre-preg.  I'm the same as you... tired and it's uncomfortable. I'm still waiting for the 2nd tri libido to kick in Sad
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  • beth6287beth6287 member
    usually more than twice a week
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  • 246baje246baje
    We were down to once a week and then two weeks ago the doc said no sex for a bit.
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  • Ximena MXimena M member

    I've had horrible m/s until this week.  Now that I'm feeling better I'm hoping my drive will start to kick in.  What sucks is that my SD's are with us this weekend so we can't get too romantic.  Their 13 year old twins and get grossed out easily.  So even a little kissing gets constant comments.  It kind of puts a damper on the mood to hear "GROSS" every few minutes.  Although, I admit it is fun to tease them.

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  • katieh1017katieh1017 member
    None since I have been on pelvic rest the whole pregnancy due to spotting, sch, low lying placenta. 

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  • JFH2010JFH2010 member
    I've got 2nd tri libido with no DH! Very sad combo. Gear from my single days has come out of the closet...
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  • Patella1129Patella1129 member
    I said twice a week, but it's actually probably more than that ;)
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  • HannahO28HannahO28

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    More than twice a week.

    Yep. I have the energy, so why not? I'm not expecting it to keep up once LO arrives.... 

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  • TambcatTambcat member
    like once every 2-3 weeks. I don't know - whenever H can't take it anymore. lol. My sex drive has not gone up at all, but it's never really very high.
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  • bio-oeschbio-oesch member
    None since i've been on pelvic rest due to sch.
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  • irish625irish625 member
    Ugh unfortunately none right now because I've had some spotting.  Doctor says no sex/exercise again for a few days.  I had this happen at 16 weeks and again at 17 weeks.
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  • TheOriginalSPTheOriginalSP
    How about a SS?  DH travels a lot so when he's in town it's like every other day or every day.  When he's out of town it's none.  lol
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  • monkeypants23monkeypants23 member

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    like once every 2-3 weeks. I don't know - whenever H can't take it anymore. lol. My sex drive has not gone up at all, but it's never really very high.

    mine has never been high either- but i thought ok i was on the pill for like 15 years- so that can lower your sex drive- so now that i havent been on the pill for a year - i was so excited for the 2nd tri libido to kick in- but nothing yet.... i wonder what its like to want it all the time>???? LOL

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  • MrsA71208MrsA71208 member

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    More than twice a week.

    This but since that wasn't an option I picked twice a week.

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  • Steffie17Steffie17 member
    I *want* to have sex like every day. I have a sex drive like a 13 year old boy. But my girly parts haven't been agreeing with sex. :( I talked with my doc, she says it's normal and to find some non-glycerin lube.
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  • vtwd40vtwd40 member
    The only thing not agreeing with the sex is my exhaustion level. If I wasn't so darn tired, it would be every other day...easy. As it is, it's usually once or twice a week. I'm super horny, DH and I are just overloaded right now. I'm ready for some holiday break so we can have more fun!!
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  • MamasaurusMamasaurus member
    It's more than once a month, but not usually once a week, either. I didn't click because I'm not sure which one applies.
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  • KaieneKaiene member
    Not as often as we'd like, but we make sure it's at least once a week.
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  • Sunshine+LuvSunshine+Luv

    Once a week, but really only to keep DH happy.

    Before we were at least 4-5 times a week, now I couldn't care less about sex. I hope my libido comes back for our babymoon in dec. 

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  • 6sour6grapes66sour6grapes6
    less than once a month, but only because of location reasons...he is 850 miles away.
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  • DragonflyBelleDragonflyBelle
    On pelvic rest for 5 more weeks!!!!
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  • eav2ceav2c member
    What is sex? :( By the time we are both done with our days... we can barely walk up the stairs. Ofc my sex drive kicks in when he's NOT home. Oh wells.
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  • lauracklaurack

    I said once a week, but sometimes 2 weeks might go by. And the other day it was so uncomfortable I feel anti-sex right now. I do get turned on and in the mood for sex but it is sort of awkward and feels weird now.

    Hubby doesn't mind, he is taking care of himself plenty I am sure!

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  • saturdaysuiteheartsaturdaysuiteheart
    more like twice a day wink wink..lol not really but def more than twice a week. the longest we've went other than after having a baby is about 3 days since weve been together and thats 6 years
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  • laurenmae1228laurenmae1228 member

    I've had horrendous m/s, so right now, it's been like once every week and a half or two. Which is KILLING me, because normally, I have a sex drive like a teenage boy. DH would definitely prefer more often now, but he's been understanding of how I feel like crap constantly. In fact, the other day, I'd been feeling frisky early in the day and informed him that he was in for a good night, but by the time night rolled around, I was miserably sick again. So I literally walked in the door from work and promptly burst into tears when I saw him, because as I so elegantly put (all garbled together in a quick sentence in between sobbing & sniffling) "I miss you and I HATE being sick and I want to have sex with you NOW but I can't because my stupid stomach HATES me!!!!" Lol. Gotta love those hormoness. To DH's credit, he just comforted me, said he missed me too, but that he would wait for 9 months if we had to, because it will all be worth it in the end. To which I grumbled something about the only way we'd be waiting that long is if the doc put me on pelvic rest, and he'd better not, or I'd go crazy. lol. I have been a tad grumpy, to say the least.

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