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E3A7AGGIE
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Need support & DH is gone :(
E3A7AGGIE
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Today has been a down day.
My symptoms are virtually gone starting yesterday. I didn't ever have real hard core symptoms, but for the past 2 weeks, I have felt some type of light nausea each morning to mid afternoon ((until today & yesterday of course)). Last pregnancy, this also happened the week before we had the u/s that showed us no heartbeat.
My appointment is Thursday morning, DH is out of the country 'til next week, and I'm feeling so down. I am so scared history is about to repeat itself.
I've read 100 things that say symptoms come & go, and that they can start tapering off around this time, but it doesn't make me feel any better. I keep telling myself that 'there's nothing I can do, what will happen will happen", but it s*cks feeling this way. :
I guess just looking for some positive vibes/story/thoughts/opinions. Thanks girls!
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Re: Need support & DH is gone :(
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I am so sorry you are having a rough time.
My symptoms (especially the nausea) started disappearing late in the 8th week - 9th week as well. I was also freaked out, but so far so good
Those symptoms were replaced by fatigue at week 11 or so.
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Same. I remember a few symptoms would come and go from 8wk on but would come back. Just when I though that my nausea was gone around 11.5/12 wk, it came back too til week 14.
So sorry you're experiencing these difficult thoughts & feelings, especially while DH is gone. It's so tough to be PgAL, and I've noticed that stress becomes even more high when an appointment is around the corner.
Sending you big hugs, and lots of T&Ps!
Thanks so much for all of yalls support!!! And good point here about putting stock in symptoms... I think it's so easy to do it because it's one of the ONLY indications that something's in there!! But i'll try not to think about it that way... key word: try
Child #1 June 2012
Child #2 Feb 2014
Child #3 Feb 16
BFP 3/9/17
I had only mild first tri symptoms with this pregnancy. It was terrifying because with my m/c, I lost my symptoms completely at 10w and that was all I could think about. I think the lack of m/s was the hardest because it felt like everyone talks about it in first tri and I felt like there HAD to be something wrong with me for not having it. But everything turned out fine.
It is normal to have almost no symptoms. It is normal to have only a few or just mild symptoms. It is normal for symptoms to disappear for a few days. And it is normal to freak out about any/all of these situations. Especially if your DH is usually comforting and he isn't around right now.
I hope your appt on Thursday goes amazingly and you can feel more confident. Sending T&Ps.
BFP#3 9-4-13 Benjamin Lee born 4-28-14
I felt exactly the same way this past weekend. I don't really have any symptoms except for my sore, tender, heavy boobs. The soreness went away Saturday night into Sunday morning. I panicked. I kept thinking of things I did that could've possibly jeopardized this pregnancy. I think it's just something that we as PGAL girls never stop thinking.
I found solace this morning when I found my little bean growing and fine.
Symptoms always give us reassurance, and believe me, we need it more than the average PG woman.
GL to you this Thursday. I'm sure everything is fine!
BFP#1: 7/14/10. EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
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Lots of good vibes coming for your appt on Thursday!
Hugs!
My symptoms totally disappeared a little after 8 weeks and I freaked out. I even went in for an ultrasound, and everything looked good! It was definitely a "careful what you wish for" thing though, because the next week the symptoms were back, worse than ever, and they haven't let up since. Ugh. Hopefully time flies and Thursday is here before you know it, and everything looks great!