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not pregnant...anymore, or ever? (f/u to BFP then BFN)

LindseyJWLindseyJW member
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BFN on b/w. hcg levels less than 5.

but still not determined whether i was ever pregnant. i feel rather indifferent. i guess this is good. a bit of mourning for what could have been, what may have been lost. relief that my health isn't in jeopardy but grief that this damn IUD may have aborted my baby (the MW so eloquently said "well it worked!"). uh, how about i just not get maybe pregnant and have an IUD kick the baby out!? yeah, i think that would be better.

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Re: not pregnant...anymore, or ever? (f/u to BFP then BFN)

  • mcatmaymcatmay member
    (((Hug)))) I'm not sure that there are any right words to say here except that I wish you hadn't had to go through any of it. What a mixed bag of emotions!
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  • Jitterbug2668Jitterbug2668 member

    Big hugs to you.  I'm glad everything is ok medically.  Take time to cope emotionally and mentally.  Its all a very draining rollercoaster.

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  • tracy042206tracy042206
    Big hugs to you, the whole situation sucks between not knowing and thinking about what may have happened but still not knowing. 
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  • veruca5839veruca5839 member
    Hugs to you.
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  • DCtoLowcountryDCtoLowcountry
    Many big hugs to you. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
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  • Mrs.HandyMrs.Handy member

    I missed the original post.

    That sounds like a sucky situation. I'm sorry that you had to go through that!

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  • smacbsmacb
    I'm so sorry you're going through this.
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  • SofkaSofka
    wow, so crazy! Take care of yourself!
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  • WinesNot WhinesWinesNot Whines
    I'm so sorry you had to deal with this! I'm glad you're doing ok.
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    {{{hugs}}}
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  • tomandcourttomandcourt
    Ugh, I'm so sorry.
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  • ArtslvrArtslvr
    Ugh.  I'm so sorry.  Sad
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  • suecadencesuecadence
    I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Please take care of yourself.
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  • LindseyJWLindseyJW member

    thanks, ladies. 

    as the day progresses, i think i'm really glad that i didn't know before hand. i just keep thinking of all the things i say to clients when they experience m/c. it's sorta different when it's you, though. and i still don't know that i had a m/c. going to meet wtih the MWs next week to discuss and have many questions about what it could have been if it wasn't a failed pregnancy. 

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  • NowDNAtooNowDNAtoo
    I'm really sorry that you are going through this.  It just sucks!
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  • SoonToBeMrsDTSSoonToBeMrsDTS member
    Ugh, I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. I hope the MWs have some answers for you. 
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