I am struggling with this decision as my doctor has put this in my hands essentially. At 39 weeks will it be induction or scheduled c section??
Our background in a nutshell is - recently moved to high risk and university hospital for possible specialty care as our baby may (or may not) have a chromosomal syndrome that could cause airway issues at delivery along with other complications. I also have gestational diabetes and this is my first child. I have not dilated at all to date. He is big (over 8 lbs estimated right now), his belly is measuring 4 weeks ahead which makes me concerned for shoulder dystocia.
My biggest fear is forcing my body into an induction when it isn't ready - having a difficult/long labor and having him get stuck or worse distressed and then maybe even having to do a section. To me I am leaning towards just doing the c section as it seems like a safer, controlled situation...should I feel guilty about this?
Re: Induction vs. C section
There is no reason at all to feel guilty about going straight to the c/s if that is what you feel more comfortable with.
You can always have your Bishop score evaluated when you reach 39 weeks and then go from there.
Agreed. You don't need to make a decision this second. There is nothing wrong with waiting until you NEED to decide and then see if you have made any progress.
Completely agree! I went through 16 hours of labor ending in a csection. Never doing that again. I want to save all my energy to be alert and not miss a moment of my new baby's first hours,
I had a similar situation. I went for the induction. It was exactly as I expected and a pretty good experience for the most part. I went in not dilated at all and my baby was also measuring almost 9 lbs. Pretty much exactly 24 hours later I was ready to push. Pushed for 2 hours, tried the vac and then my doctor said it wasn't going to happen and I would have to have a c-section. According to my doctor, he was just too big. My doctor had been suggesting I skip the induction and go straight to the c-section, but I went for the induction (even though I knew there was a 50/50 shot it would work) and I don't regret it. My only regret is that I should have pushed my doctor for continuing with pushing and not doing the c-section. I seriously feel like I could have pushed for many more hours if they would have let me. The reason I feel that way is because I have had a lot of complications from my c-section.
APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
I was induced with DD#1 and had an elective c/s this time around. The c/s experience was a million times better. I wish I'd had the c/s with DD#1 like they wanted me to. But every delivery is different, so it's hard to know ahead of time. But if you want the c/s, I don't see any reason why you should feel guilty. With all the complications, I wouldn't risk the induction, and a c/s seems a lot safer - IF it was me. But it's not. Do what you feel in your heart & don't feel bad about it.
*lurking*
I agree with the others, don't feel guilty. Factoring in the complications that may already pose a risk, for me, i'd go the c/s route.
My first came at 37 weeks and was a breeze (no epi or anything). 2nd we did an induction at 39+1 due to GD and some hypertension issues. I made it to 8cm by 8 hrs in but I had stalled and baby still had not came down at all. OB seen some fluctuations in her heartrate and thought it was safer with the c/s so they gave me a quick spinal because I had not gotten an epi and the c/s was a breeze.
Reason she didn't come down? She was 9lbs 6oz and she was letting us know she wasn't coming down - we were gonna have to make her lol. They allowed me to push to see if I could get her down before surgery and that's when they seen the fluctuations of her heartrate.
Recovery sucked but I have been told it's worse with your first and worse when you go through labor and then have to have a c/s.
Good luck!!