1st Trimester

Ha! If this pregnancy survives my marriage may not.

My POOR DH! My ms is gone, boobs are a little tender, sensitive nipples, yada yada but most things that were making me feel miserable are gone and I feel normal again. Except my mood swings!

I have never had such bad mood swings. One moment I am fine and the next I am a bawling mess on the floor! Last night I started like this around 7pm and then at 9pm my husband was supposed to be getting off duty and calling me to say he's coming home. The last 2 nights he was late after telling me around 8:30p he would be on time no doubts! Last night was no different. Normally this would upset me a bit but I'd just go to bed. Last night I pretty much snapped called him pissed off hung up on him and turned off my phone! Got in bed and cried for like 40min. That's when I realized that he STILL wasn't home and is now a good 30min late. I called him because I'm psychotic and he hung up on me. Lol, then I got really pissed and sat in the middle of the floor crying like a madwoman! He comes home and suddenly I stop???

He was pissed of course and still kind of is. I feel bad but I really cannot control my  emotions or thoughts. Obviously I shouldn't have called him but still. OH man and this is just the beginning!

Re: Ha! If this pregnancy survives my marriage may not.

  • Well, at least you're past the denial phase.  I've been much less nasty since I realized that I need to watch myself!
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  • Ha - sounds like me every month when I PMS!  Cut yourself some slack, and remind him that your hormones are out of control and he is not allowed to get mad at you Stick out tongue.  I'm sorry you went through such a rough night.
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  • Oh no, no denial. I know I'm crazy when I'm acting crazy. There have been time I'm crying and laughing at myself because I don't know why I'm crying! I'll be a b*tch and 30seconds later apologize just to do it again knowing full well that my hormones and emotions are all out of wack.

  • Haha...I don't mean to laugh-- but this sounds like something I'd do.

    DH and I have been arguing lately over small things and I flip out and go crazy all the time. He's been pretty patient thus far, but last night was the icing on the cake... You are not alone.

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    Oh no, no denial. I know I'm crazy when I'm acting crazy. There have been time I'm crying and laughing at myself because I don't know why I'm crying! I'll be a b*tch and 30seconds later apologize just to do it again knowing full well that my hormones and emotions are all out of wack.

    haha. It was when I was transitioning between 2 bcs that I first had bouts with crying for no reason.  Once I realized what was happening, it would usually turn to laughter...and flashes on DH's face that were likely him questioning his life choices.  lol

  • When your body gets used to the hormones that are flowing through your body and is able to better regulate them, the mood swings usually go away. I know I was a lot more moody at the beginning than I am now. I also know that with DS I was a complete b!tch at the end, so I'm trying to prepare for that now. 

    GL and ease up :) You can try to help regulate them, no reason  

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  • OMG I was awful this weekend to my fiancee. I blew up at him after a night out with his friends. I felt like I couldn't control my anger and honestly it wasn't over anything terrible. I just got meaner and meaner! Poor guy but he argued back--which probably didn't help. I'm not saying that he should kiss my a@# and that I can do whatever for the next six months but of course men don't understand what is happening to us..Some days are really great--I'm happy and singing..Other days I'm frustrated with m/s and mood swings/exhaustion. Today is not the best of days either..ugh..So hang in there--and cut yourself some slack..I'm sure everything will be ok..And someone just told me "It's all worth it"..LOL..I try to remember that when I get upset about all these kooky symptoms..
  • SAME HERE!!!!

     

    though im still partially in the denial stage... 

    "and another thing I do not like about your mother...." 

  • Same here I feel so sorry for DH and I get so sarcastic too he will look at me with a complete utter shock. Oh and not only that My parent are living with me right now, they got my here and there nasty-ness and poor parents they dont know that their daughter pregnant so they just look at me on a blank stare..... Zip it!
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  • As much as I hate to admit it I totally undersand! Our poor husbands! I thanks God all the time that mine is understanding when I am trying to act like a civilied human being. lol Good luck! =)
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  • I agree with you on the title of your post. I feel so bad for my hubby.. he's going through so much at work & I feel like at home he shouldn't have to put up with all this BS, but he does. & does so gracefully. Luckily, he steals my baby books and he has been dealing with my moods so gently and gracefully. Couldn't ask for anything better.
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  • i Feel you im 8 weeks preg today, and im so moody and sick, I feel so bad for my SO! although he knows what to say and what not to day lol 
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