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TinaL99
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FFFC?
TinaL99
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I really like the new song by Selena Gomez ("I Love You Like a Love Song").
It hurts my feelings a little bit that my BFF is still pretty close friends with someone that DH & I had a falling out with a few years ago. They go to Sesame Place together and stuff b/c their kids are closer in age. I admit it, I'm jealous.
The baby shower we're going to this weekend, the couple is having a little girl and 1. her regstry is absolutely HUGE, like anything and everything baby related is on it and 2. it's all princess-y stuff, which is NMS. I'm wearing a blue shirt to the shower to contrast all of the pink that I assume will be there, lol!
DD1: 3/31/10
DD2: 9/7/11
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Re: FFFC?
I feel like DH and I are always in the same constant struggle. We both feel under appreciated and even when we discuss the situation, it just stays the same. I know he works and provides for us, and coaches on top of it, so I stay home with Jules. But as everyone probably knows (from my lack of job b*tching) that if there was a job, I would work. And when I was working, things were the same as they are now. I do pretty much everything around the house, he does do the lawn maintenance though. Part of the problem is that I am impatient and unwilling to wait until he gets around to doing something, so I just do it all. That's how it's always been with us, and I think he relies on that and knows that if he just leaves something, I'll take care of it eventually. Our every weekend disagreement is that he stays up and drinks beer until like 2 am. Jules is up at 6 am, he doesn't get up with her ever and I'm up during the night with her and I think it's BS. Yes, I fully believe that he deserves time to kick back and relax but if there's nothing else going on during a weekend day, there's no reason why he can't get up early. His typical Sunday is sleeping until 10 or 11 am and then hanging out all day and watching football. I don't ever get a day "off" and I know that that is part of being a mom but I deserve a break once in a while too, like once a month maybe? What has spurred this round of complaining was asking him to take the garbage out last night (3x) and waking up to find that he didn't do it. I've also just consented to pay a neighborhood kid to level a 10x10 space in our yard that he had all summer long to do and now our new shed won't be installed until next Spring, when we have a newborn. Thanks DH.
I don't think my DH is a bad guy and I know that I probably sound nasty. I'm just tired and frustrated and feel like no matter how much I ask, nothing changes.
I spent a good half hour of Molly's naptime looking at pictures of Adam Levine online.
My dad is coming Sunday to stay overnight with us. I had a follow-up appointment for my root canal, along with an annual at the ob/gyn scheduled for Monday so he is going to watch the girls. However, AF showed up today so I had to cancel the annual. I think I'm going to act like I still have both appointments so I can get out of the house by myself. I really want to do a little shopping without lugging both kids around, and I would LOVE to go to lunch by myself or with a friend!!!