Gotta love being a step mom...cross post from my bmb
DH & I finally figured out why his
daughter has been a little hellion lately when she's at our house.
Apparently, her mother told her, "Daddy only married Trebmal because she got pregnant and Trebmal only got pregnant because I did and you don't have to be nice to or spend any extra time with her, her parents, her sister or her niece because daddy will get tired of her and they'll get a divorce so if you're not very close to any of them, then it'll hurt you less".
AYFKM???!! Yeah, she's 33 years old, remarried and pregnant herself, FFS. DH is LIVID.
She also told my sister she didn't want me at their daughter's parent teacher conference tomorrow because I am a teacher, too and I will dominate the conversation and won't let her, or her husband or my DH talk to the teacher about their daughter.
Yeah, DH was digging around for his lawyer's number last night, he is soooooo pissed.
Re: Gotta love being a step mom...cross post from my bmb
Where do these evil women come from!!
You'd think if she was also remarried and pregnant she would have moved on and could let this sh!t go. When BM's say crap like that it only makes them sound bitter and jealous.
Before DH and I got married BM told him (in remediation) that our marriage would only last six months. Thanks b!tch. It's already been over 2 years.
After 5 years of marriage my SD's BM still refers to me as daddy's girlfriend but refers to her boyfriend as my SD's step dad.
These women are delusional!
BM sounds pretty horrid. These kind of women seems so immature!!! My DH's Ex included.
Maybe BM doesn't want you at parent teacher conferences because she feels threatened by you. As a teacher (and normal, functional human being) you have knowledge and insight that she doesn't have.
Some people never get over it. BM was never married to my DH. They had a daughter (she is 8 1/2 now). She got married when SD was 6 months.
I have started dating my now DH when SD was 1 1/2. BM never got over it. She cannot accept that we are married and keeps telling SD that I should be jealous of her....
The best thing we found to deal with psycho BM was a very low contact policy. My DH only communicates via e-mail in very telegraphic way such as "the visitation dates are such and such" and we never reply to her rants.
She still sends lengthy e-mails cursing and accusing, be we just ignore. Some people are sick and do not deserve our energy.
Now we are expecting our 1st child. We will wait as much as we can to tell SD the news because I am afraid BM will flip.