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I would like to strangle my MIL. Not p35 related

rsrn02rsrn02
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So on mon I went to Il's to pick up ds. I reminded her that dh bday is wed (today). And that we'd probably have them over on the weekend for cake and coffee with my sis and bil. Her response. Can't we just forget his bday this year. WTF! Lady you gave birth to him and you want to forget about it. F off you biotch! Of course I didn't say that. I kindly responded no and I don't think what you said was funny (she said she was joking). And that this year was a big one. He's 40. Her response well I guess we HAVE to come over then. Yes you biotch you have to come over and show your child love and show your grandson that his dad is important. Grrr sorry this is jumbled I'm on my iPad.
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Re: I would like to strangle my MIL. Not p35 related

  • carladilloncarladillon
    Wow....I think I would be speechless.  I can't even imagine those words coming out of my MIL's mouth.  I hope your DH never finds out she said that...awful...
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  • newbee36newbee36 member
    imagecarladillon:
     I hope your DH never finds out she said that...awful...
    This. Sorry you have to deal with it!
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  • steverstever member
    WTH? She sounds like a real charmer.

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  • rsrn02rsrn02
    I don't know why I keep hoping she will change. But I should've known better from a woman who wouldn't come see her first grandchild for two days because she was mad we left a message on her cell phone that we'd had ds and that we didn't keep trying to call her until we called other people. Listen lady if you choose not to answer your phone even though your right next to it and you knew it could be any day that we were having the baby then answer the damn phone!!! It's not all about you lady.
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  • vanverthvanverth

    She is not going to change.  If you expect her to, you will live in a world of frustration.  She says crap like that to get a reaction.  If you REALLY want to make her crazy, do not react.  It will drive her nuts. 

     

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  • JilliansMomaJilliansMoma member
    imagersrn02:
    I don't know why I keep hoping she will change. But I should've known better from a woman who wouldn't come see her first grandchild for two days because she was mad we left a message on her cell phone that we'd had ds and that we didn't keep trying to call her until we called other people. Listen lady if you choose not to answer your phone even though your right next to it and you knew it could be any day that we were having the baby then answer the damn phone!!! It's not all about you lady.
    This happened to me but with my step mom (she still hasn't been to visit DD) You're right they are trying to make it about them. Unbelievable that she's pulling that crap over her own son! Sucks for your DH.

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  • rsrn02rsrn02
    I know I shouldn't respond to her it's just hard not too. Since I wasn't sure whether she would even call yesterday to wish him a happy day. I made sure my family knew it was his bday. My niece and nephew texted him. My sisters and their dh texted him as well. My parents called like three times. But lo and behold she actually called him and told him happy bday and told him what time of the day he was born. Shocked the heck out of me
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  • erika1677erika1677
    Sounds like my MIL.
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