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XP: T-TTC an antidepressants

Hello.

I've been taking a bump break, so apologies for leaving without saying so.

We're rounding the corner into 2 years TTC #1. I've been seeing a therapist and going to support groups but my therapist thinks I'm depressed and I probably reluctantly agree.

In my past I had a very long bout (12ish years) with some intense depression and at the time I tried numerous (like more than 10) types of antidepressants. The last time I was on anything, Wellbutrin was what really worked for me.

I know a lot of about SSRIs and depression meds generically, so I know they can kill libidos and hamper sexiness but I also know that depression can diminish fertility. How's that for a double edged sword.

Are any of you on antidepressants and do you have special TTC recommendations for what works?

Thanks dudes.

Also posted on TTCAL.

BzeetyD = 38, Mr. BzeetyD = 44 together 12/02 married 9/08
TTC #1 since 1/10
DX: Unexplained/??? MFI issues

Our lil' lost sparks:
5w3d loss 7/30/10 - EDD March 2011
8w loss 4/15/11 - EDD November 2011
8w3d loss 8/2/12 - EDD March 2013
4w c/p loss 10/29/12 - EDD July 2013

Long story: trying on our own + testing testing testing with 6 rounds of Clomid, more testing, injectables + TI, laparoscopy - one tube blocked, 2 IUIs with Follistim...BFNs.
RPL testing all normal, Karyotyping normal

Moving on to IVF.

IVF #1 April 2012 = BFN, IVF #2 June 2012 = BFP. U/S 7/23 = saw heartbeat but measuring behind. Follow up U/S on 7/30 - no heartbeat. D&C 8/2. Trisomy 12. IVF #3 Oct 2012 = Chemical Pregnancy

Phone consult with CCRM on 12/12/12 - ODWU 1/4/13 - both tubes clear(!) - AFC 24, AMH 3.2, FSH 9.6, LH 5.4, E2 25. DH has high frag rate but improved!
IVF #4 March 2013 CCRM. EP protocol w/ Menopur, Gonal-F & Dexamethasone. ER 3/29 & IMSI, PICSI. 43R 13M 10F 6blasts bio'd. CCS testing reveals 3 normals!!!
FET 5/31/13 of 1 4AA blast - thawed and expanded. 4dp5dt BFP.
Beta 9dp5dt = 181, 11dp5dt = 427. 1st u/s showed a healthy heartbeat! EDD 2/16/14

After 4 years of hoping and heartbreak, our sweet little bean was born on 2/19/14
We are so in love with her.

"I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it."

Everybody is welcome!!!

Re: XP: T-TTC an antidepressants

  • I too am seeing a therapist, and have read about anti depressants not only killing libido but increasing the likelihood of birth defects.  However, if you're working closly with your doctor and they know you're still TTC, I'm sure you'll hear all the pros and cons in detail!  I think as long as you're comfortable being completely open with your doctor, they'll work with you for the best option for you.  GL!  FX whatever path you choose, you feel more in control and eventually (ASAP)...get a sticky baby!
    Dx: LPD, late ovulation;
     July 2012:IUI #6 on 7/28, BFP on 8/9,beta 97, 8/11 189, 8/13 400!!   DS born 4/18!
    9/30/13 - Miracle BFP, released from RE 10/21, EDD 6/6/14, DD born 5/27!
    6/19/16 - Miracle BFP, EDD 2/25/17

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  • Hi there. For one, I am sorry about all that you are going through and I commend you for seeing a therapist. I really should do that too. I was on wellbutrin about a year before I started ttc. I didn;t have any side effects, no libido changes, but I know it differs from person to person. I was told I should go off it when we started ttc though. Maybe find out from a doc if there are any safe drugs to take?
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    TTC since March/April 2010
    DX: MFI - less than 1 million sperm, 26% motility
    DH put on anastrozole to increase counts
    June/July 2011 100 mg Clomid + TS IUI#1 & IUI 2 - BFN :-(
    Forced break due to DH getting spinal surgery in August 2011
    IVF - January 2012: BFN
    FET in April 2012 - BFP at 6dp5dt! Beta #1 at 9dp5dt: 82.5, Beta #2 at 12dp5dt: 352 Beta #3 at 19dp5dt: 6000, saw heartbeat and one little bean at 5W6D!
    After nearly 3 years of waiting our LO was born December 18th 2012!
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    Hi there. For one, I am sorry about all that you are going through and I commend you for seeing a therapist. I really should do that too. I was on wellbutrin about a year before I started ttc. I didn;t have any side effects, no libido changes, but I know it differs from person to person. I was told I should go off it when we started ttc though. Maybe find out from a doc if there are any safe drugs to take?

    Thanks. I'll be talking with my OB on Monday about this and seeing what her recommendation is. I was just hoping that someone had some info about what their doc said regarding specific drugs and TTC.

    BzeetyD = 38, Mr. BzeetyD = 44 together 12/02 married 9/08
    TTC #1 since 1/10
    DX: Unexplained/??? MFI issues

    Our lil' lost sparks:
    5w3d loss 7/30/10 - EDD March 2011
    8w loss 4/15/11 - EDD November 2011
    8w3d loss 8/2/12 - EDD March 2013
    4w c/p loss 10/29/12 - EDD July 2013

    Long story: trying on our own + testing testing testing with 6 rounds of Clomid, more testing, injectables + TI, laparoscopy - one tube blocked, 2 IUIs with Follistim...BFNs.
    RPL testing all normal, Karyotyping normal

    Moving on to IVF.

    IVF #1 April 2012 = BFN, IVF #2 June 2012 = BFP. U/S 7/23 = saw heartbeat but measuring behind. Follow up U/S on 7/30 - no heartbeat. D&C 8/2. Trisomy 12. IVF #3 Oct 2012 = Chemical Pregnancy

    Phone consult with CCRM on 12/12/12 - ODWU 1/4/13 - both tubes clear(!) - AFC 24, AMH 3.2, FSH 9.6, LH 5.4, E2 25. DH has high frag rate but improved!
    IVF #4 March 2013 CCRM. EP protocol w/ Menopur, Gonal-F & Dexamethasone. ER 3/29 & IMSI, PICSI. 43R 13M 10F 6blasts bio'd. CCS testing reveals 3 normals!!!
    FET 5/31/13 of 1 4AA blast - thawed and expanded. 4dp5dt BFP.
    Beta 9dp5dt = 181, 11dp5dt = 427. 1st u/s showed a healthy heartbeat! EDD 2/16/14

    After 4 years of hoping and heartbreak, our sweet little bean was born on 2/19/14
    We are so in love with her.

    "I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it."

    Everybody is welcome!!!
  • Hi there,

    I hope you don't mind me posting. I am on Lexapro and have been since before I got pregnant due to severe OCD. Before we did IVF I sat with my psychiatrist and had a long talk about what to do. She told me that Paxil is the only category D medicine right now, but she expects that some of the SSRIs will be moved there shortly. The biggest problem with Lexapro is persistent pulminary hypertension in the newborn, especially if taken after 20 weeks, but my doctor is keeping me on it because she said in my case the stress and anxiety will be bad for the baby as well. She said she doesn't like to give medicines out unless she has to. I think the best thing to do is talk with a psychiatrist and weigh the benefits vs. the risks for your situation. I think most people will agree that if you can get by without them you should. At the same time, you might not be able to do that, and that's nothing to be ashamed of. I know what my life is off of medication and dealing with OCD, and I know for a FACT that would cause problems for my baby. Am I glad to be on it? No. But after multiple sessions with her, a peri, and talks with my family, we decided this was what we needed to do.

    It's not easy. I wish you the best of luck in coming to a decision about this.

     

    Me (32) DH (30)

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