Parenting after a Loss

WWPAL Do?

So after some falling out with my former OB/GYN (which goes way past the end of my pregnancy with DS) I've decided to find a new one.

DH is getting new insurance on the 12th and I'm due for a mother lovin' annual in December. I figured this would be as good of a time as any to find a new one.

I really want to try a VBA2C when we have #3 (still just a thought lol I don't need 3u2... 3u3 maybe....), which there is almost no difference between a VBAC and a VBA2C statistics wise.

Would you bring this up even though you're just there for gyn stuff? If they flat out refuse shop around our would you wait until being KU to harass them about it?

BFP #1 10/28/09 EDD 06/24/10- Miscarriage 11/2/09
BFP #2 11/30/09 EDD 08/12/10- Sophia Grace born 8/1/10
BFP #3 11/16/10 EDD 08/04/11- Samuel Richard born 7/28/11
BFP #4 01/04/12 EDD 09/19/12- Simon Nathaniel born 9/6/12
BFP #5 03/27/13 EDD 11/25/13- Savannah Lee born 11/18/13

Re: WWPAL Do?

  • I would talk to them about your history and mention that, while you aren't TTC right now, it's something for the nearish future.
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  • imagehappyhoopla:
    I would talk to them about your history and mention that, while you aren't TTC right now, it's something for the nearish future.

    Sounds good to me 

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  • I personally would want to find an OB I wanted to stick with before I got pg.  So I guess you don't necessarily have to do it now, but it would be a good opportunity to ask the one you chose to do your annual.
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  • imagelovemymaddy:

    imagehappyhoopla:
    I would talk to them about your history and mention that, while you aren't TTC right now, it's something for the nearish future.

    Sounds good to me 

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  • I would tell them your history and talk to them about it. You're already there getting your annual done, you may as well ask, if they say no then there's no reason to go back to them!

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