July 2012 Moms

Facebook Announcement

If you have a facebook, when do you plan to make a pregnancy announcement?
I haven't yet, and won't for a little bit.. but I'm so dying to.
Ugh. I'm so terrible at secrets. I'm not quite ready to tell the world, but I'm very anxious to. (I realize that's conflicting, too).


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Re: Facebook Announcement

  • I think I am going to wait till 15-17 weeks to announce on FB. We are telling our family on Christmas, I will be 12 weeks by then Smile
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  • I plan on waiting a  l  o  n  g  time. I'm thinking maybe when I'm 5 or 6 months. I just think there is something so special about it being just between family and close friends for a while.
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  • we won't be making a FB annoucement.  Tell the world loud andproud whenever your're comfortable doing so, but I've had THREE friends announce it on FB, and then have to annouce a miscarriage on FB as well, and I can't begin to imagaine how painful that is.
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  • I won't post on FB till after my SS knows. I am thinking around thanksgiving. If he doesn't figure it out sooner. We have full custody and I am already having ms.
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  • After we tell our parents... Weekend after thanksgiving. Im working thanksgiving and that weekend, and we want to tell our parents in person (both live over 5 hrs away). Our first appt is nov 30, so that weekend is the perfect weekend because we will have ultrasound in hand :-). I will be 9 weeks on that Sunday. 
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  • imagekzawisl:
    we won't be making a FB annoucement.  Tell the world loud andproud whenever your're comfortable doing so, but I've had THREE friends announce it on FB, and then have to annouce a miscarriage on FB as well, and I can't begin to imagaine how painful that is.

    This exactly. I've has so many facebook friends recently announce, only to sadly have to go back a few days or weeks later with a miscarriage announcement, and I do not want to have to go through that. I don't think I will announce on FB. I'm a private person, and it's just not my thing. 

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  • We aren't telling our families until Christmas so it will be after that. I am thinking about New Year's. When I was PG with DD, I put her u/s photo up at midnight and New Year and introduced her as sure to be the best part of our 2010 (of course then I was 5 months along). I would be 12 weeks then.
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  • Not until after my first tri. Ive had a family member have to go through and say they had a miscarriage as well and I dont want to do that. Weve already told some of our family. I want to keep it just to close family and friends now. Once I know we are out of the first tri, and I know everything is ok with the baby, I will let others know. 

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  • We're going to wait until anatomy scan. I want to wait until I can tell the gender. As someone else mentioned I pretty much only have close friends on facebook so more then likely they will already know about pregnancy. But I'm waiting until after christmas to revel that even....
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  • I'm thinking around week 12, I guess.  All of my very close friends know, and family. I know that a loss can literally happen in any week, but I know the percentage of that goes down by a lot at a certain point... so I think I'll wait until then. I think.


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  • imageMissEricaK:
    I haven't yet, and won't for a little bit.. but I'm so dying to.
    Ugh. I'm so terrible at secrets. I'm not quite ready to tell the world, but I'm very anxious to. (I realize that's conflicting, too).

    I feel this exact same way! I'm not sure when I'll annouce on FB....

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  • I'm with you guys, around 15-16 weeks, hopefully when I have a cute bump to show off :) My friends and family will already know by then, so its really just extended family and other circles of friends who would find out on Facebook.
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  • i wasnt going to until after my sister gave birth in february. too late of course because my family has taken it upon themselves to congratulate me and ask all their questions on my wall. 

    if one day you feel comfortable doing it then go for it. its all up to you. maybe you could share something big like your first ultrasound, or when you find out the sex, or when you notice that your new pictures aren't helping you keep the secret. 

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  • I will make a FB announcement after I tell my whole family and my coworkers and friends.  I will probably do it early next year (maybe the first week of January?)

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  • It's a personal choice and whatever you feel comfortable with.  For us, I will never be making a FB announcement. I learned my lesson last time. We got excited and announced at 10 weeks and three days later, I had a miscarriage.  I ended up sending mass messages to all who had congratulated us and hoped the rest didn't see the original announcement, but there was a random comment here and there after about how my pregnancy was going and kept having to send more messages. 

    (Sorry to answer with such a buzzkill response...)  Tongue Tied

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  • If everything is still going smoothly by then, I'll probably announce on FB and my blog shortly after New Years, maybe in the form of a resolution or something. By then I'll have been able to tell my family and coworkers in person. I'm so excited!
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  • We are going to wait a while. I really want to shout it out to the world but at the sane time I am sacred to jynx it.
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  • I will try very hard to wait until 12 weeks, but I may break down and do after my first ultrasound.
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  • not until after we tell the family at christmas.  but DH's family is weird, and many of them live overseas, so we're actually planning on sending "We're Expecting" announcements over snail mail so that they *hoepfully* will receive it around Christmas time. 

    So after we're pretty sure all those overseas people have gotten their cards, we'll do a FB announcement.  We don't want to risk any of DH's extended family getting upset that they had to find out via FB, or that so-and-so found out before them (i told you, they're weird).

  • Closer to 20 weeks I think. I had a late MC and D&C in June, though I hadn't made a FB announcement, all of my friends, co-workers and family knew at that point. Everyone was so supportive, but its painful to have people bring it up unawares - I can't go through that again. 
  • we already did, but we had so many people on there, and my blog that were praying for us through the loss of our daughter, and we wanted to share. we need all the prayers we can get that it doesn't happen again.

    i had a mc before too, and yea it sucks "untelling" but again, it's that many more people praying. so i don't mind.

    share when you're ready!

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  • I'm definitely waiting for second trimester. I need to make sure the important people know first.
  • No facebook announcement for me.  After going through 3 years of TTC it has made me sensitive to those kind of announcements.  That is just me though...
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  • With DD we waited until 20 weeks.  That's when we found out the sex.  We haven't decided this time around yet.  
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  • 12 weeks, same as I did with DS.
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  • We will announce on facebook and our family blog once I hit second tri.
  • I definitely won't post anything until all the important people know and we're comfortably past the first trimester. My birthday's in early January, so maybe I'll put something up then. I wouldn't really bother, but I do have some distant relatives and friends who I don't see or talk to all the time and FB is the best way for us to keep up with each other, so I'll put something up for their sake. 

    There's this running joke with a guy friend of mine who asks if I'm pregnant at pretty much any random post. I think I'll start it this time; "Hey Jerry, guess what!" 

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