I was just wondering if that is standard. I definitely did not click with my nurse and aside from not being able to hold my baby in recovery, it was really annoying to have her in there right after my c-section when I was completely out of it and just not happy. Just wondering if that's unavoidable. Ideally, I'd love to have a recovery where it was just me, my husband, and the baby, but I'm not sure if that's possible.
Re: Did you have a nurse with you the entire time in recovery?
Immediately after, I believe it's standard for 1,maybe 2 nurses to be at your side to be sure there are no side effects.
Usually within a couple of hours they will let you be...at least temporarily until the hourly checks start.
*nods in agreement* thats how it was in my hospital. "private" time starts when you get to mother/baby and thats just until the other nurses come to harass you
This is exactly why the nurse has to be there with you in recovery. Someone has to be with you to make sure both you and the baby are okay and that there are no complications from the surgery. It might be annoying to have someone breathing down your neck, but it's for the best. Check your hospital's policy but I've never heard of not having a nurse in the room for recovery. The minute they send you to your room, you should get your alone time, but probably not before then.
With DS1 I was in a large recovery room with a lot of beds and curtains. There were two nurses attending to all the patients but the only came in my curtain to bring in family and take my to my room.
With DS2 I was in a different hospital where they don't have recovery rooms, just regular L&D rooms. I had two nurses in there with me and I loved it. They were very nice and helpful with getting DS2 to latch on. The also let DH do a lot for DS2 that the other hospital didn't. DH was able to bathe LO, change his diaper, get him dressed in clothes we brought, and hold him for everything else.
At the hospital I delivered, you recovered in your room. The nurse came in every so often to check vitals, make sure my uterus was shrinking and check my bleeding.
She never stayed in the room for a long period of time though.
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I'm sorry you thought it was annoying, but come on, you just had major surgery so it's kind of a medical neccessity. That is why it's called recovery. If something bad is going to happen, it's usually in the first 1-2 hours. That is why they watch you so closely during that time. Hopefully you click better with your next nurse. For me, I don't remember exactly, but I'm sure there was someone in there with me the majority of the time. She may have stepped out for a few minutes at a time, but not for long.
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My nurse was younger and sweet. She just kept popping in during recovery every 15 mins or so for the first hr, to check how I was and make sure my feeling was getting back in my legs.
My first experience was like that too. I delivered my first two in the same hospital but now I am in a different state so we'll see what my experience will be here. I definitely wouldn't want someone there constantly just the typical popping in to check kind of thing.
I remember I had this one nurse that I loved and she was my lifesaver when I was so sick, and sad. (My son was born at 24 weeks and had to be in the nicu right away obviously) And she was so kind and helpful. When I didn't want to eat she asked if she could bring something just in case, and brought me serbert and graham crackers and I felt like it was the best food I had ever eaten, lol.
Anyway, all that to basically say hopefully you'll get a good one this time if policy is for a constant nurse. Gl