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I'm not ashamed to say...

KareBear0408KareBear0408
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1) I'm ready to go back to work tomorrow. I'm ready to get back to my normal life. 

2) I've watched an embarrassing amount of One Tree Hill the past three days. I've had my own mini-marathon. I'm on season 2-disc 4. I'm shamelessly watching episode after episode and drinking my weight in sweet tea. 

3) I'm glad I'm standing up for myself with my doctor and getting a second opinion. I'm usually so quiet and subdued. I say screw that this go round. This is my life-and more importantly-my babies' lives I'm dealing with here-"These things just happen" is NOT enough for me. 

 

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  • raashtonraashton member

    Good for you for meeting the world head on!

    I hope you have better luck with your next doctor!

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  • ReeceFamilyReeceFamily member
    Sounds like you are on the mend!  Good for you...and yes, get a doctor you like.  Things like this definitely put things in perspective and make you realize that life is too short to put up with any crap!
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  • FutureMrsDrew73110FutureMrsDrew73110 member

    Glad your happy to be going back to work. I feel so much better now that I'm back at work. 

    YAY for a OTH marathon!! Since my m/c started 3 weeks ago, I've been watching Desperate Housewives... I'm now on Season 6 espisode 5. :) and I'm also drinking a ton of iced tea. 

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  • Rorr2Rorr2 member
    Good for you on all accounts. And as fellow OTH fan, I just may go find  a few episodes to watch myself.
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  • GHBEAGHBEA member

    Happy for you.  Hope the new doctor is all for listening to your concerns and getting to the root of it.

     

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  • hopefulreturnhopefulreturn member

    You go girl! I returned to work today, and it was great. I am absolutely exhausted, but I finally feel like my day had a purpose again. 

    I think you are very smart to be vocal with the 2nd opinion you are seeking.  

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  • baker916baker916 member

    Good for you!  I watched an absurd amount of Gossip Girl on Netflix the first few days, those kinds of shows are a great mind-numbing distraction!  

    You should get more clarity with your doctor too, you have a right to push for more information, more tests, etc. 

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  • CnAnACnAnA member

    Good for you!  I don't think you should be ashamed of any of that!  I actually went back to work today.  I had the worst part of my natural m/c last night at around 2:30.  I lasted till about 2:00 pm. at work then had to come home.  I'm annoyed and frustrated because I want to just move on with my life, and I physically can't yet.

     I'm eager to hear about your new doc and how that goes!  I hope this one doesn't screw you around like the last one!

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  • MereWVUMereWVU
    Good for you! You should stand up for yourself. I've read some of your previous posts and I'm glad that you're getting a second opinion. Good luck ith the new doctor!
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  • JessMike07JessMike07 member
    imageKareBear0408:

    1) I'm ready to go back to work tomorrow. I'm ready to get back to my normal life. 

    2) I've watched an embarrassing amount of One Tree Hill the past three days. I've had my own mini-marathon. I'm on season 2-disc 4. I'm shamelessly watching episode after episode and drinking my weight in sweet tea. 

    3) I'm glad I'm standing up for myself with my doctor and getting a second opinion. I'm usually so quiet and subdued. I say screw that this go round. This is my life-and more importantly-my babies' lives I'm dealing with here-"These things just happen" is NOT enough for me. 

     

    GOOD FOR YOU!!! Keep pushing & fighting for yourself and your unborn babies!!! It wasn't enough for me despite many people telling me this and I finally have answers!!!!

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    4.28.11 MTHFR a1298c homozygous discovered
    4.2011 Began NaProTechnology
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  • tatercatertatercater member
    I think you are entitled to everything on that list!  Good for you!!
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