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How many times have you been married?

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I know a lot of us are step-moms whose spouse has been married before, but there are also some bio-moms in the same situation.

So I'm just curious about how many times we've all been married. 

DH is my 2nd marriage, and I plan for it and hope it to be the last! The first lasted about 3.5 years (no kids thank goodness).

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  • CocoBrynneCocoBrynne
    This is the first marriage for both my DH and myself, he was never married to BM
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  • CurlyQ284CurlyQ284 member
    This is my first (stepmom) and DHs second marriage. They didn't have a wedding so his family got really into the wedding even though its his second, so that was fun.
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  • WickedCoolSMWickedCoolSM
    My first, his second.  He told me his second marriage is wonderful and mine will be, too.  ;)  I said, ok, when we renew our vows in umpteen years, we can consider it my 2nd, his 3rd.
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  • wwnbwwwnbw member

    This is my 2nd. I was 18 and VERY stupid. I moved out after 5 months. I do have DD but not with EX H.

    DH was never married before me.

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  • +j+k++j+k+
    Once.
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  • J+RJ+R
    First marriage for both of us.
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  • NativeNyerNativeNyer

    This is my first - 9 years.  2nd for DH.

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  • cole2144cole2144 member
    This is the first marriage for both of us. SD is 4 and DS is 1.
    No one else will ever know the strength of my love for you. After all, you are the only one who knows what my heart sounds like from the inside.
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  • NikkiJ19NikkiJ19

    1st marriage for me

    2nd for DH

    We have been married 5.5 years so it is officially his longest marriageParty!!!

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  • shellygreen728shellygreen728

    Twice

    5 years the first time 8 years the second.  I am engaged now and he has also been married twice....Not sure when we will get married as we are not in a hurry.  We both are going with 3rd time is a charm ;)

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  • kasper923kasper923 member
    This is a second for both of us.
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  • J&A2008J&A2008 member
    First marriage for me, second for DH.
    Stay at home mom to a house of boys: two amazing stepsons, 12 and 9, and our 4 year old.
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  • bebe11bebe11 member

    My 3rd, DH's 2nd.

     My first marriage was at the ripe age of 19, and because of total pressure from his very traditional hispanic family (I was pregnant), needless to say it only lasted 2 years.

     

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  • ncsu4ganneWed38430ncsu4ganneWed38430
    My first & his 2nd. We've been married for a year & a half.
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  • Banana44Banana44 member

    This is my first - his second!

    We've been married for 3 1/2 years.

     

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  • Krisx2Krisx2 member

    First for both of us. DH and BM had only dated for 3 months and in the middle of the breakup found out she was pregnant. SD is now 9.

    We've been married for 2 years, together for 4 years and have DD age 21 months! 

    Mio Marito per Sempre: Married 2009. SD is 12 yrs. DD is 4 yrs.

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  • mrslucidmrslucid member
    This is my first, his second.  We just celebrated our third anniversary last month.
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  • GwenillianGwenillian member
    My second, DH's first.
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  • FriskyPandaFriskyPanda
    My first, his second. He was married to BM for 14 yrs or so, we've been married 6 1/2 yrs.
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  • MrsS2203MrsS2203 member
    My first, DH's second! We're working on 5 years of marriage and in march we'll have been together 6 years.  I've known DH 16 years.
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  • Ginlyn0Ginlyn0 member
    It's my first (I never married my Ex) and DH's 2nd.
    DD(14),SD(13),SS(11),SS(9),DS(3)

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  • SWmamaSWmama member
    50 times. Liz Taylor ain't got sh!t on me. Stick out tongue
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  • MarSamWhitneyMarSamWhitney member
    First for me, second for him.


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  • trebmaltrebmal

    2nd time around for both of us.  DH had a child with his xW, I did not have children with my xH and we are now expecting our first child together.

     

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  • Jessys_GirlJessys_Girl

    imageCocoBrynne:
    This is the first marriage for both my DH and myself, he was never married to BM

    This.  My Skids are 9y.o. (SD) and 8 y.o (SS) and my DD is 19 months.

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  • FutureMrsWittigFutureMrsWittig member
    First for both of us.
    Mama of 2: one who grew in my womb, both who grow in my heart.
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  • emma7875emma7875

    imageCocoBrynne:
    This is the first marriage for both my DH and myself, he was never married to BM

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  • AliW220AliW220 member

    Been married once, never had kids with ex-h.  SO was married once, had son with ex.

    We were good friends before dating, and even then I knew we just plain worked well together. Its a strange but very good feeling, especially after both of our very dysfunctional previous marriages, but we're both a little scared to make that jump again.

    Me: 29  DH: 33
    Married April 1st 2017 <3
    DS #1: May 2009 
    DS #2: Jan 2012 

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  • blush64blush64 member
    I am entering my second marriage. (feb) This will be the first marriage of my fiance but he lived with someone for several years so under our laws they were common-law. (common-law married if they had wanted to split assets or anything) He has no kids and I have two. We plan on some together as well.
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  • Littlejen22Littlejen22 member
    First
    Jen - Mom to two December 12 babies Nathaniel 12/12/06 and Addison 12/12/08
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  • PhantomgirlPhantomgirl member
    imageemma7875:

    imageCocoBrynne:
    This is the first marriage for both my DH and myself, he was never married to BM

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  • PhantomgirlPhantomgirl member
    imageemma7875:

    imageCocoBrynne:
    This is the first marriage for both my DH and myself, he was never married to BM

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    imageemma7875:

    imageCocoBrynne:
    This is the first marriage for both my DH and myself, he was never married to BM

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  • mariahcohenmariahcohen member
    This is second for both of us.  We each have two children from first and we have 2 year old together.
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  • mrssmwmrssmw
    This is the first marriage for DH and me.
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  • meahganfmeahganf
    This is actually kind of hard to answer!! This is DH's second marriage. This could be considered my second marriage, but my first marriage was annulled. In the eyes of the law this is my first marriage. I usually say it's my second though..
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  • honeybee #1honeybee #1
    Me once, DH twice. Like one PP, I'm a little 'so there' about the fact that we've been together twice as long, just not married as long.
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  • moonfaeriemoonfaerie member
    This is my second marriage, and DH's first. I have no children with my XH. DH was never married to SD's BM.

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