December 2011 Moms

36 week internal exam

Re: 36 week internal exam

  • Depends on the doctor...not really painful just uncomfortable...nothing to fear:)
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  • It does for some women, doesn't for others. You won't know which category you fall into until you have it done.

    For me (with DD) the internal just felt like...nothing, really. Kind of like a pap. I was surprised it was over, especially since I had heard the horror stories. I was also 3 cm dilated, so that probably had something to do with it not hurting much....it's not like the doctor had to force her way in there.

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  • I had my first at 34 weeks. It was no big deal at all, just slightly uncomfortable. I wasn't dilated or effaced at all, just soft.
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  • I wouldn't say it hurts, it's just a little uncomfortable, depending on the doctor. Sorry if this is TMI, but if the doctor has longer fingers and can more easily reach all the way, then it's not as bad. 
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  • I think it hurts!!!
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  • No, I don't find them painful.  The only time I've considered an internal uncomfortable is when I've been about to go into labor or already in labor.
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  • Mine was uncomfortable, but I have a woman doctor and am glad because I wouldn't want a man's fist all up in there! I would imagine it would be a little more uncomfy then, but not sure. It does feel like they are reaching for your throat though....my contractions are more painful than the internal was
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  • I think I am more scared for the internal checks than for labor itself :/
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  • Just had my first one. It doesn't hurt at all. I was expecting pain since I've heard so many horror stories, but honestly, it doesn't hurt. 
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  • I had one at 32 weeks in Triage, and sorry to say it was incredibly painful :(  I was clutching the bed and screaming/crying.  I hope I'm in the minority..
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  • imagetosh24:

    It does for some women, doesn't for others. You won't know which category you fall into until you have it done.

    For me (with DD) the internal just felt like...nothing, really. Kind of like a pap. I was surprised it was over, especially since I had heard the horror stories. I was also 3 cm dilated, so that probably had something to do with it not hurting much....it's not like the doctor had to force her way in there.

    Wait...they actually have to force their way into somewhere??  I thought they just checked the outside of things...yes, I realize it's called an "internal" - I guess I thought that just meant they would be checking you vaginally.  I honestly didn't realize they actually had to go "in" anywhere.  I'm blonde, I know  Embarrassed lol

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  • I think it depends on your cevix.  Mine is reeeeeaaaaalllly far back so it's quite a process and it hurts.
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  • image2gr8pits:
    Mine was uncomfortable, but I have a woman doctor and am glad because I wouldn't want a man's fist all up in there! I would imagine it would be a little more uncomfy then, but not sure. It does feel like they are reaching for your throat though....my contractions are more painful than the internal was

    Excuse me, did you say "fist"?! OUCH! Now I'm scared. I wonder if I should start scheduling my last couple of appointments with a female Dr.

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  • I never thought it was painful, but uncomfortable.  Depends on who does it though.  It did hurt during labor when I'd have a contraction during an internal.

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    imagetosh24:

    It does for some women, doesn't for others. You won't know which category you fall into until you have it done.

    For me (with DD) the internal just felt like...nothing, really. Kind of like a pap. I was surprised it was over, especially since I had heard the horror stories. I was also 3 cm dilated, so that probably had something to do with it not hurting much....it's not like the doctor had to force her way in there.

    Wait...they actually have to force their way into somewhere??  I thought they just checked the outside of things...yes, I realize it's called an "internal" - I guess I thought that just meant they would be checking you vaginally.  I honestly didn't realize they actually had to go "in" anywhere.  I'm blonde, I know  Embarrassed lol

    When I got them I didn't think they were forcing their way into anything, just feeling around.

    As to whether or not they hurt, yeah they hurt but it isn't excruciating. Imagine forcefully sticking two fingers into your vagina far enough up to feel your cervix. Definitely not comfortable. The further up they have to go to feel your cervix the worse it feels. No worse than a pap although I personally don't think paps are that bad.

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  • I had one a couple of weeks ago and I didn't feel a thing. Might be a different story when you're already in labor.
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  • I was scared, but just had one yesterday and I was surprised how easy it was for me.  My cervix was totally closed and far up, too.  I thought it was more comfortable than a pap and really quick, too.  Hopefully it stays this easy for me...
  • Mine was quite painful....all though the pain didn't last long. My doc does it at each appointment from here on out unless I decline and I am considering declining them....but I would actually like to know as things change down there.....so I will probably just tough it out.  I am thinking about bringing a stress ball or something for next time.
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  • It can be uncomfortable, but it's so brief. Seriously, if you can't handle the discomfort of the internal exam, I'm really nervous for your labor experience! Just breathe deeply and think happy thoughts. It'll be over before you know it. :-)
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  • imageKatieBlondie27:
    I had one at 32 weeks in Triage, and sorry to say it was incredibly painful :(  I was clutching the bed and screaming/crying.  I hope I'm in the minority..

    This!

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  • imageNYGirl02:
    Mine was quite painful....all though the pain didn't last long. My doc does it at each appointment from here on out unless I decline and I am considering declining them....but I would actually like to know as things change down there.....so I will probably just tough it out.  I am thinking about bringing a stress ball or something for next time.

    This too! I've been thinking about declining them as well!

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  • I had mine a few weeks ago and it didnt hurt at all. They said I was high and closed and I still didnt think it hurt.
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