Hello ladies. I had my second miscarriage yesterday. Cramping started Saturday afternoon and around 2pm on Sunday I started to bleed. I called my OB who advised me to go to the hospital and ended up doing a D&C. I was 9 weeks.
I feel so tired, angry, hurt, and depressed today. This time feels so much harder than my previous loss.
I was very sick this time around so I'd already informed my boss about my pregnancy. I called him today to let him know I wouldn't be in tonight and that I'd lost the baby and was met with a bit of an attitude. He asked when I would be back and I said I wasn't sure yet. He then told me, 'I hope you don't plan on milking this too much- we're very busy this week.'
Am I doing something wrong here? I work a very physical 3rd shift job in a warehouse and I know I would be useless if I did go in tonight. How long did you ladies take off before you went back to work? Am I being lazy by taking off at all?