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• kellymarie68 member

  October 2011

  I'm a FTM and 4 months pregnant.... I just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. I am scared out of my mind and want nothing more than to make this work but I know that what I am doing is best for my daughter. Just keep your LO in mind when you're questioning yourself, you're a strong woman and you have your child's best interest at heart.

  

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• Mrsbullermansn

  October 2011

  Thank you. Same goes for you. Not easy walking away, but I know things will get better.

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• Sweet face 82

  October 2011

  Hi and welcome!  I was in the SAME situation as you.  I waited until my son was almost 11 months to leave for good.  My only regret is that I didn't do it sooner and that I put up with so many more months of emotional and verbal abuse, and beginning physical abuse.  Get a good lawyer and a good therapist...they are worth their weight in gold.  The hardest thing to realize was that my STBXH wouldn't change...in his mind, if he didn't hit me outright or scream in my face and say terrible things every day, then it wasn't abuse. It isn't easy, but it does get better. 
  

  

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• LadyLissame member

  November 2011

  I'm also a FTM and DS is 3 months old. His father and I separated when he was only a month old. You can do this. You will be amazed of the strength you can get from your LO

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