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DH left me alone to pass out candy..

Mrs.McIrishMrs.McIrish member
in TTC after 35
and guess who came to the door as soon as he left?? My neighbor who had a baby 6 months ago. I have managed to avoid seeing them since the baby was born and now they are at my front door! I had to put the smiley face on. UGH!! Thanks a lot DH..

TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days

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  • shyntrueshyntrue

    ((Hugs))  we had an infant in a stroller too...  Sad  I do love seeing the little ones in costume though.

    Hope tomorrow is a better day.  (Hugs)

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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member
    arghhh....sometimes they just don't understand how simple little babes and pregnant women upset us when we so want to be one of them.  Hang in there.
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • winidpuwinidpu
    I just gave out candy to a 1 year old dressed as a panda and my empty womb cried out a little. She was just too cute for words as she toddled up to my front door. These are the moments when IF just plain sucks! Hang in there.
    TTC #1 since 2/10 Me 38 FSH 12.9 & AMH 0.16 DH 47, low sperm count due to meds. 07/11 We have sperm! 28 million, 70% motility, morphology 1% normal. 08/14/11 1st IUI unmedicated BFN. 09/11/11 2nd IUI w/ Femara + trigger BFN 10/14/11 trigger & Final IUI 10/16/11 BFN 10/21/11 Started acupuncture and loving it! 01/21 ET one embryo 6 cell grade C. Beta 02/02. BFN. Taking a much needed break. image
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  • annaliselannalisel member

    That's tough. Hugs.

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  • areverearevere

    My Halloween costume this year is Barren Woman Who Walks Her Dog and Avoids Trick-Or-Treaters.

    Living in an apartment, the kids can't come to my door. But they were out in force on the street.

    The new moms with their babies dressed like lady bugs and lions and stuff just killed me. I locked myself in, watched a cheesey vampire movie and ate candy corn alone. DH was out with a buddy.

    I feel your pain, McIrish. Good on you for putting on a smile.

    Me = 38, Husband = 31. TTC since 1/10. M/C at 8 wks 5/10. Started trying again 9/10. All tests normal: AMH/MIS, FSH, HSG, SA. Estradoil high. 6/20/11 - Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI#1=BFN. 7/17/11 - Clomid+IUI#2=BFN. 2 natural cycles = BFN. 10/6/11 - Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI#3=BFN. 10/31/11 - Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI#4 = BFN. 11/26/11 - Follistim+Ovidrel+IUI#5 = BFN. IVF#1 - Menopur+Follistim. 2 ET 5/11/12 = BFN.
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  • Country Girl in the CityCountry Girl in the City
    I put up a no candy sign.  Partly because I did not want to deal and partly because I did not buy candy.
    BFP on IVF #2 6/29/2012. Beta #1 7/3 = 522; Beta #2 = 1180; Beta #3 = 6491 image BabyFruit Ticker
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  • tst1998tst1998

    DH is in Vegas, and I'm just sitting on the couch eating the candy, wishing I had a LO to take trick or treating. *sigh*

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    IUI#1-4 Jan.-Apr. 2011 = BFNs
    IVF#1 Aug. 2011 = c/p, FET #1 Nov. 2011 = c/p, FET #2 April 2012 = BFP!
    Beta #1 = 153, Beta #2 = 269, Beta #3 = 675
    1st U/S = TWINS!! EDD 12/29/12
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  • owlprofowlprof member
    imagearevere:

    My Halloween costume this year is Barren Woman Who Walks Her Dog and Avoids Trick-Or-Treaters.

    Living in an apartment, the kids can't come to my door. But they were out in force on the street.

    The new moms with their babies dressed like lady bugs and lions and stuff just killed me. I locked myself in, watched a cheesey vampire movie and ate candy corn alone. DH was out with a buddy.

    I feel your pain, McIrish. Good on you for putting on a smile.

    Awesome, arevere.

    McIrish, I'm sorry you had a rough time.  I would have definitely ignored the trick or treatersl  I think the little ones are too small to egg your house yet.

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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    imagehappywifemomofone:
    arghhh....sometimes they just don't understand how simple little babes and pregnant women upset us when we so want to be one of them.  Hang in there.
    This. But I do have to say I really enjoy the kids coming to the door. I can't let IF ruin everything :(

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • doubledogdaredoubledogdare
    I was bitter old lady this year and turned off our front lights because I just couldn't deal with little ones coming to the door - I blamed it on my dogs not liking the doorbell. Smile I felt a little guilty but now I'm glad I wasn't the only one!
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  • mtlaurelmtlaurel
    Ugh! I was actually glad to have our lack of power as an excuse for not having to deal with trick-or-treaters this year.. And, believe me, I'm not glad about still not having any heat or light.
    TTC #1 since June 2010
    Me: 36, DH: 42
    Dx: DOR and MFI

    DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
    Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal

    IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
    IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
    DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
    DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!

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  • njpabzynjpabzy member
    Sorry you were left alone to deal with that but good for you for putting on the smile. It wasn't an easy night.
    M-43 DOR (FSH 20 AMH 0.16, AFC 4-6) Endo stage III DH-42 (low everything)
    TTC #1 unofficially since 6/09, officially since 10/10
    6/11 RE testing,rt tube blocked with hydro, 8/11 lap surgery rt tl
    IVF#1 10/11 Estrace,450 Follistim, 15 units low-dose HCG, DHEA - cancelled (only follie growing)
    IVF#2 started stims 11/4/11 - same protocol, increase in concentration of HCG, added CoQ10, no response, cancelled on CD 12
    12/2/11 began accupuncture; Break in Dec. Next cycle anticipated in Jan.
    PAIF/SAIF Welcome
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