3+ years since + HPT? Come in

Rawr08 · October 2011

I am looking for another TTCALer who has not had a + HPT in 3 years or more.

It seems like the longer I go without a + HPT, the worse I feel my odds are. I am going on 4 years since my loss. 4 fvcking years since I saw a positive pregnancy test. I am bitter and sad. DH says he has never seem me like this (even when I went through my loss, I was with my ex-h then). I feel desperate. I am wondering if anyone else has gone this long without a + HPT, and if so, how in the fvcking h3ll did you deal with it? I really need some help here. I am literally at my wits end, I am to the point where I don't want to go to work. I would rather lay in bed all day.

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kokokat · October 2011

I'm not in the same situation as you are, but for what it's worth, I think you're totally justified in how you feel. I know I would be too, and I probably would have been long before this, so you've made it much longer than I would have. Life so isn't fair sometimes, and if there was anything I could do to make sure you get your take home baby, I would. So sorry to hear you're having such a tough time. Hugs to you!

nykkybaby · October 2011

It hasn't been three years, but I have been ttc for over three now so I understand where you are at. It takes me a while to get pregnant, but I haven't gotten my take home baby. I know its difficult to continue keeping your spirits up. I am having a very hard time too. But remember to live, love and do something extremely nice for yourself. ((HUGS))

mysticial · October 2011

I too am not at 3 years, but we have been trying for almost 2.5 years. I can imagine how you are feeling. I too go through the feeling of being alone. I have a friend who was pregnant and due at the same time as me when I had my loss. She is now 16 weeks pregnant with her second and I have yet to even had or got pregnant with my first take home baby.

I'm so sorry you are going through this. It really sucks when "good" people get the things that "not so good" people deserve and the "not so good" people get the things that we "good" people deserve.

butterfly843 · October 2011

Sending ((hugs)), pm me if you ever want to talk. While it hasn't been 3 years since my last +, dh and I've been trying for 8.5 years and it's tough to see all our friends who started trying after us already have a few kids and feeling like it will never happen for us.

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