Hi Ladies- I need you to keep me in your thoughts today.
this morning my husband left for work at 6:30, he will be gone for three days, shortly after he left I got up to use the restroom and found that my miscarriage has finally started. my mom said she would come stay with me but I am not sure if I should call her just yet or not. I wasn't cramping at all this morning but they have started a little now, the bleeding seems pretty minimal as well. I really dont want to be alone, but all I want is my husband and I know he cant be here.
today I should have been 10W1D we found out the baby had no heart beat at 9W3D and its heart had probably stopped at 8W6D.
you have all been such a great help over the last few days, thank you so much, it really suck we all have had to go through this
Re: it started this morning
this!
During my second miscarriage, I miscarried naturally... i was not informed about what it would really be like (doctor told me it would be like a heavy period with cramping... he did not prepare me at all! I was 11.5 weeks) I ended up having to call my husband to come home from work to take me to the doctor's because I was losing so much blood and didn't know what was "normal". When we got to the doctors I ended up having to have an emergency d&c, because I was losing too much blood.
You may want someone close by. I'm sure everything will be fine, but it wouldn't hurt to have someone there with you. ((hugs))
I agree, I think you should have your mom come over. More than likely you won't run into any complications, but just having her there for the emotional support will be so helpful. I'm sure she wouldn't want you to go through this alone, nor would your husband. My t&p are with you. I'm so sorry you're going through this. (((Hugs)))
Oh man, this made my heart sink for you. I am thinking about you today.
I'm seeing this kinda late so I hope you had your mom come over!!!
I'm so sorry. This is only my first day in this waiting game, but I am feeling the same way. The whole experience is upsetting enough, but the waiting for the physical is just cruel. I may have to cave to surgery by midweek so that I can return to work.
*BFP #1 9/10/11 Natural m/c 11/1/11 at 11 weeks, 5 days*
*Diagnosed as unexplained infertility*
*BFP #2 12/6/14 after IUI#2 Hopeful! EDD 8/14/15*