FIL beyond creapy and inappropriate (vent)
OK my FIL is just plain gross and creapy and he's making me feel really uncomfortable with his comments and stories.
He always talks about how he likes his wife naked or how she would tease him when they were young walking around in her underware and what not!
When SIL had her baby and was pumping he told me "hey you should go up and watch how it's done"WTF!
On saturday he came over and was asking if we are taking pics of me to see how the belly is growing. I already had a feeling where this was going so I just pretended I didn't hear him. He then commented if I still did my toenails myself (which I DO 
)So I said yeah, it's getting tougher but I can do it. He says" well you should have your hubby do it for you. I did it when his mother was pregnant with him, I just needed her to be naked while I was doing it so I could benefit from it, too!" GROSS!!!!
THEN he continues with the picture story and tells me how they'd do nude shots of MIL so they could see the progress and change in her body and that obviously the belly was the biggest change but that he was so amazed at the change of her breasts.
I WANTED TO VOMIT AND THROW HIM OUT!!!
I complained to DH about it after he left and he just laughed it off and said "babe, don't worry about it, he's been like that all his life. Wants to be "cool" so he doesn't think what he says.
I DON'T FN CARE!!! He needs to shut the heck up and DH needs to tell him!
So next time I"ll just have to speak up . UGH it's beyond disgusting.
Am I overreacting here? I just had to vent to you ladies as i really think it is beyone inapropriate.
Thanks!
Re: FIL beyond creapy and inappropriate (vent)
OMG. Bigbear, I don't want to down play your suffering your in-law drama could be some kind of dark sitcom.
And yes I would definitely find it uncomfortable if my FIL started talking about how much he liked pregnant, naked MIL. *shudder*
I hear ya! I should start writhing this down. I could get rich from this BS! LOL I just can't believe it! YUCK
That is so, SO, not ok. I'd be so uncomfortable. I'd also be more than a little worried about how he's going to talk and behave around LO. It sounds like he doesn't have a filter at all.
Maybe you could broach it with your husband that you're concerned he'll be inappropriate around your baby.
You are NOT overreacting at all. That is completely inappropriate talk and I can't believe your husband is ok with it. I would take matters into my own hands personally and tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and you will not have him speak that way around you and definitely not around your child.
I agree with a previous poster about discussing it with your husband about your child and how they should not be subjected to that type of talk.
GL!!!
Thanks ladies! So I'm not crazy here. He is USUALLY OK around my nephew but then again, I don't see him with the boy that much so I don't know what he says around him.... He swears alot too and has a really bad temper and DH himself alrady said that he doesn't want our baby to be around him much and especially not when we are not around b/c FIL just doesn't think.
I am just worried that he'll say those gross things in front of her when she's bigger and she is a GIRL so that is just not going to fly.
I was really mad at DH! >:(
Ya! Beware what you wish for! lol
You are NOT overreacting in the slightest.
My FIL does the same thing and I HATE HATE HATE it. The first time I met him he talked about his porn collection and why kinds he likes. He talk about porn a lot. And bad mouths my MIL and tells me details of his life I DO NOT want to know! I told MH that once our kid can start understanding words she will never ever be around him without some serious supervision (and maybe duct tape over his mouth?).
If he is anything like my FIL he would not.