We just got married a few weeks ago, and we seem to be stuck in this space. We've concretely agreed to talk about whether we're ready to get pregnant again in six months. I've decided kindof on my own, that regardless of whether it takes longer than six months, I have to lose some of this weight before I can even consider trying. But he's so anal about me taking my bc. I've started calling him the bc police. He's on me all the time about whether I took it, and when I took it, and it's making me nuts! I'm on board with waiting, but I don't really see the point if it's still all we're ever going to talk about! Is there a way I haven't figured out to calm him down and get him to back off a little?