Sleep training went well, for the most part (we used Ferber). I can now
put LO down awake and he goes to sleep with little to no fussing. I
usually put him down at 8 and he will sleep until 4-ish. He immediately
dropped his midnight waking/feeding when we started sleep training. So
I'm not complaining there - we've made a lot of progress. It's just
that once he wakes up around 4, he will NOT go back to sleep. This
morning he woke up around 3 and I nursed him and put him back down.
He'd quiet down so I'd think he was asleep but then he'd start crying
again. I finally caved around 6 and brought him to bed with us. I felt
awful for going that long but I keep hearing/reading "be
consistent/don't give in" (so don't flame me). If he did this at the
beginning of the night, I'd assume he wasn't ready and try again in a
couple of weeks. I just don't understand why it's so easy at bedtime
and such a fight at 4 AM? I don't don't what to do.... I don't hate him
coming to bed with us (I enjoy it, really). I just don't want to
assume that this habit will go away on it's own. Any advice?
Do you talk to LO at all when you get up to feed him? If Chase wakes up hungry in the middle of the night, I'll pick him up, feed him, and put him back to sleep, all without saying a word. My goal is to keep him as sleepy as possible, and make sure the he knows it's not a time to play. Good luck.
Chase was born 4/23/2011
Carlene was born 4/18/2014 A14 siggy challenge: Junk Food
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