Two weeks...that's how long it's been since we became licensed (foster-to-adopt). In
those two weeks we've already had two phone calls about potential
adoptive placements.
Both times we've turned them down.
It's been tough having to make a decision that so strongly impacts
another person's life. All kids deserve to have a family, and it's been
so difficult having to walk away.
In both situations, the children were either out of our age range or had significant behavior issues. I knew making this type of decision would be tough, but I didn't realize just how difficult (and emotionally exhausting) it would be.
Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers as we continue to wait for our child(ren). Thanks!
Re: Two Calls in Two Weeks!
T&Ps
We had to turn down an opportunity to be shown for domestic adoption too. We felt horrible, but our SW assured us that it would be worse to end up in a situation that was bad for everyone involved.
GL to you.
We aren't licensed yet either, but I worry I'll say yes to all of them too! T&P to you OP.
Yeah, I'm the same way. Before we were licensed, DH and I had a major discussion that involved me agreeing to look at every situation rationally, and not throwing out the "but they need a home" card. I'm so glad I have him, because he definitely helps me stay focused on the situation at hand, and to think rationally about whether or not the possible placement is the best fit for our family.
Thank you for all the replies! As difficult as it was, I know we did the right thing for them and us.