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Ugh. I wish I could stop worrying!!

niknak1128niknak1128 member
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I saw my RE for the first time since my loss at 19 weeks. Saw him Friday. It was recommended by my old RE to go back to infertility for some recurrent loss testing. He recommended two things.  One- a 2 week course of antibiotics to make sure all infection is gone, although, I have no sign of infection now.  Two- hysteroscopy to make sure there are no structural problems in my uterus. We're trying this month on our own which he said was ok to do.  He did say that he normally tells patients at least 2 months for late losses and 1 month for early losses.  It's been 2 months since our loss.. almost.. but he meant 2 cycles and I've only had 1 cycle since.  Totally excited about the +OPK I got on Friday and we've been TI'ing like crazy hoping to catch it.  

RE said that the blood testing wasn't necessary, in his opinion, because I haven't had consecutive losses and have had a very healthy pregnancy/heathy baby in between. So the above was all he recommended. I guess I never thought about the structural things so now I'm kind of getting scared about cysts of fibroids or adhesions or something.  I've never had any issue with any of that before. I have PCOS so of course I've had cysts show on my ovaries before but not in the last 3 yrs.  Since DS in December of 2008, I've had no issues at all. Until recently losing my baby at 19 weeks for what they believe was infection and was an isolated incident but all this testing is totally freaking me out.  

 I wish I could just relax and stop worrying about all of it.  It's amazing how complicated getting pregnant actually is!! Why can't something be simple for once.. I just want to get pregnant, stay pregnant, and have a baby!! I wish that for all of us!!!  

 Just venting... can't sleep. Thanks!!  

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Re: Ugh. I wish I could stop worrying!!

  • hungryhippohungryhippo member
    ((hugs)) just ((hugs)). Vent away...
    TTC #1 since January 2011
    BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
    BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
    After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
    Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!! 
    BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
    imageimage  My chart.


    Congratulations to the fabulous KGS2003! Her sweet boys are here! Grow boys grow!!!
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  • orangegogglesorangegoggles member
    Big hugs...I think it is completely normal to worry about everything, especially at night. That is always the worst time for me. We are here for you to vent to anytime!
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    BFP #1 6.19.11 ~ EDD 2.23.12 ~ CP on 6.22.11
    BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
    BFP #3 11.17.11~ EDD 7.31.12 ~ MC on 1.18.12
    BFP #4 4.12.12 ~ EDD 12.25.12~ Born on 12.26.12
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