Hi ladies. I am early in my pregnancy with DC#2 and I have been talking a lot to my DH about wanting to have a gentler birth this time around. I feel that a Birth Center with a midwife may be the best this time around. My DS was born at 34 weeks due to PPROM and the whole experience was pretty hard. I gave birth vaginally, but I can't say that I remember much of it or enjoyed any of it.
I am not considered high risk, but my son was in the NICU for 9 days and I am, of course, afraid that I will end up the same way with DC#2.
Have any of you had experience with this? I just want to enjoy the birth of my second child.