Parenting after a Loss

Important thing I learned after having a baby

I am never giving anyone a baby blanket as a gift again.

Which sort of sucks because I knit and love to make blankets for people. I made 3 for B!

However, we got SO MANY blankets/quilts as gifts for her. Handmade and otherwise. I don't even have anywhere to store them, so they are just piled on the spare bed in her room.

And now I'm sort of embarrassed that I used to give out blankets because I never realized how common of a gift it is. It's like the crystal bowl and candlesticks of weddings gifts...of which I ended up with 14 and 7 pairs respectively.

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  • Ha! I just emailed a friend that is pg and told her not to register for any except for Aden & Anais swaddles. We have 10 that were gifts. However, I disagree on the handmade ones. We have 3 of those and I feel like they are all pretty special!

    I got more crystal vases than bowls I think-and only one set of candlesticks! However, I got 2 cake stands. Neither of which have ever been used.

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  • We didn't get a ton.  I think we got three?  One we use all the time now (in fact I almost need to find out where it was purchased so I can buy another).  One I'll probably never use.  The third my mom made from the quilt that I used until it was in pieces.  I probably won't use that one either, to be honest.  We do have a square from that quilt framed and hanging on the wall.

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  • We ended up with:

    5 quilts (2 handmade)

    2 kintted/crocheted blankets

    6 fleece blankets

    Plus the 3 I made.

    We use one fleece in the stroller and I used one of the knitted ones in her infant car seat. I hung one handmade quilt on the wall. The rest take up a good portion of the not-very-large closet in her room.

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  • We also have a ton of blankets and where we live it doesn't get too cold so they're stuck in the closet until maybe Thanksgiving or later. My grandma crochets so we have a few from her, my mom made 1, and several other from my mom's friends.
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  • We got a TON of blankets and my favorites are the handmade ones.
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  • We got a few blankets, including 2 handmade blankets and a handmade quilt.  I honestly use all of them...I just rotate.  I love my handmade blankets knowing that someone put so much time and love into them.  So definitely keep making blankets and giving them as gifts!
     
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  • They were time-limited for us.  There was a period of time early on when you could not have too many swaddle blankets and burp cloths, but they've all been put away for months.  I love the handmade blankets, but in LA I just don't use them much.

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  • I never got a ton of blankets with either boy, it might be location though. To the PP that got a cake stand as a wedding gift, so did I and it doubles as a punch bowl. I have never used it but I know some day I will.
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  • I will never give anyone a stuffed animal.  I have so many that I don't know what to do with them. 

    Ah, I hope you reconsider about giving homemade blankets.  Those are the best.

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