Hey ladies, I'm a frequent lurker here but haven't posted a bunch, but was hoping you could help me.
My husband and I are expecting our first in March and are planning a Natural Birth at a birth center with a nurse midwife. My tour is next week and I'm trying to get my list of questions together. I tried asking some of the girls at work but all they seemed to be concerned with was "Is there a NICU available?" and "What if you have to have a C-Section?" Not exactly the kinds of things I want to focus on.
Anyway, I was hoping you ladies could help me. I have a few, such as "How long do I have to stay after the birth" and "Can I eat and drink during labor" and "If it's a boy does he get circumcised here or with my family doc" But if you ladies have any to add to the list I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks!
Re: Things to ask on Birth Center Tour
While the questions your coworkers brought up may not be things you want to focus on they're still vaild questions. Even the most routine birth can go south in a matter of minutes. I think it's a good idea to cover your bases and know what their policies are for emergency situations just so you can be prepared in the rare case that something does happen. Remember, information is power!
Some things you may want to consider: Is there a limit to how many people you can have visit at one time? Do they provide birthing balls or do you need to bring your own? How long can you labor in the tub/are you allowed to labor in the tub once your water breaks? Is there a place for DH to lay down and rest if your labor is long? Where is the nearest place to get a bite to eat and what are their hours? What is the policy on photographing/video taping staff (some staff may not want to be photographed/taped)?